Is your Over 70 wife finished with sex and does she try to accomodate your needs in other ways, or are you on your own? Is she interested in what you do or she does't care, as long as you don't bother her for sex. What kind of solutions have you come up with? While my wife is done , for herself, she will occasionally break out a big dildo, or strapon. Her other suggestion was to Go Bi, which I also tried. No need for any hangups anymore, its a hall pass for getting off, s long as it isn't another woman, she is ok with it and even enjoys watching when she can. I never thought I would go in this direction but it works for us.
You are a luck man. If my wife was OK with me enjoying a oral relationship with another man and liked to watch, I think I would try to talk her into joining in on the fun. Mmmm, the thought of French kissing my wife with a cock trapped between our lips, heaven.
My wife is barely 50, and definitely NOT done with sex. We have had some issues since I came out to her, but she has recently told me I need to explore my desires for men. I never expected that, not sure what I'm gonna do about it, but it feels great for her to encourage it.
I'm 58 and my wife will be 63 next month and still enjoys sex to it's fullest. Since meeting her 8 years ago and exposing myself up front she was welcome to my bisexuality, loves it, supports it, and indulges in it. We've been involved with a couple for almost 6 years now, I've been involved with him for 11 years. Both of our wives love it and encourage it as they too get the pleasures of a good MMF threesome because neither has any desire to give up on cock as much as he and I do. They even indulge in each other from time to time with their strap-on's when not using them on us.
LowHangers, I have read many of your posts. I must say I am quite envious of your relationship. I would very much like to emulate it. I hope to ease my way in that direction but I have to be certain not to harm the relationship my wife and I have now.
I told my wife about my “curiosity” a few years ago. She didn’t have too much of a reaction, but she took it in stride. It’s really never really come up since then (conversation wise), but she never said I COULDN’T
I tried that myself several years, I told her about my youth and "experimenting" and got the same response. I was hoping for a least a glint in her eye - but noooooo.
It takes a very understanding woman to accept that her man enjoys sexually what she enjoys which is cock. I was a late bloomer myself but found out during sexual dry spells of my first marriage (25 yrs.) how enjoyable a cock really is. Most women are intimidated that their man actually enjoys something that they at times enjoy themselves. Being closed minded is most of it and I get it because I too was that way until one sunny afternoon...I'm re-married now to an accepting woman so everything worked out for the better.
