Hello!! My husband recently accepted the fact that he is bisexual. I always suspected but he just was never comfortable talking about til like the last several months. We have been married just under 8years and we have 3kids. I am completely ok with his bisexuality and it doesn't bother me at all. But, he hasn't really explored it much and i guess i feel like if i dont allow him to that the curiosity will over whelm him. And i don't wan him to regret not havin explored it later on in life. Are there any other wives that have allowed some exploring that would be willing to share the exceriances and feelings about it??
hi, well I'm another bisexual male - my wife and I have an open relationship since the last 18 months - we have been married for 20 years and have two teenage kids who also know that I am bisexual. We first opened up our marriage with another bi-guy and for five months had regular 3sums with hiim which she found she enjoyed very much. I pulled out of that after 5 months and she stayed with seeing him until now. I am quite active sexually with other guys - no other women to date - and really enjoy practicing polygamy and anonomous m2m encounters, always playing safely. My activity does not diminish my love and feelings for her in any way and i/we consider our realtionship primary. Having given up her bf she is not so happy with my activities but, since we are currently geogrpahically separated, accepts it and I tell her about all of my encounters; I have quite a high libido. She does not feel that she is able to have casual relationships as I and many guys can. What you write sounds good - my wife accepting me was a huge watershed in our relationship and made it much stronger. It did and has changed our relationship though and you should be aware that it will do so with your own relationship. But as with marriage - "for better or worse" - I am very comfortable now with my sexuality and consider bisexuality, if not the norm, to be a widely-desired status, except that most people will not admit it or are too conditioned to open their minds to it. While my wife knew that I had had m2m liasons be4 we married I wish now that I had been able to fully accept my sexuality earlier. Good luck, Simon :sunny:
