Hey guys so basically i have been anally masturbating for a while now, really really love it, want any tips and pointers you may have. Any item suggestions and positions/techniques. Cheers
wow man what tips do you want? for me what know is that you will start to lose interest in real sex, masterbation is one of the reasons why sometimes guys get a weak erection so i don't suport you to keep on with it.
Uhmmm.... Well, being a straight guy myself, I can say that anal play for me is a no-no. And it's a no-no in a big way... I mean, I have had a chick stick her finger up there once in the middle of the act, and it just reaffirmed my position that the butthole is for taking craps only. However, if you are talking masturbation techniques not involving anal, get a chick to jack you off, it's technically still masturbation and feels awesome. Bar that.. Well, sit on your hand till you can't feel it, hope you can somehow get a grip and go to town...
Try & find an item (dildo etc) that is about 1 inch thick with a rounded tip. Use a bit of lube & insert it in & out until you can feel the opening is getting more flexible. Then use a slightly thicker item that stretches you open even more. 2 inches (or maybe more) is about the thickess I have used as being comfortable / bearable. Positions: try lying on your side with your knees up near your chest or lying on your back with legs apart, squatting down, or lying on your stomach. If you have a different postion (?) you like, private message me or describe it?
what i usually use is a travel toothbrush holder (obviously not used to store toothbrushes) but yeah this feels amazing, but the other day i wanted a bigger stretch managed to get this tube of toothpaste i found which was nearly 3 inches in diameter, mind that it isnt a gradual thing it is just flat.
I don't see the harm, I've done it with a lubricated smooth kitchen instrument handle & jerked myself off at the same time, you get a massive hard on..
I also masturbated my ex with my thumb in her ass and two vingers in her vagina.. she was so wet and I could feel the thin wall between the two passages.. fine for both sexes.. if it gets you hot why not? (that's my patent*)
There are plenty of items that manufacters make that are ideal for anal play or can be used as cheaper substitutes instead of buying a manufactured sextoy. Just look in your hardware or supermarket etc & you'll see numerous items that would be ideal apart from their main purposes.
My wife doesn't like my fingers touching her anal area but - if she was a little more adventurous, it would be a even more arousing for me - or her - even if she allowed a me to use a sextoy.
Masturbation of any form is fun. It is all about knowing your own body, What ever gets you off as long as its hurting no one else; Just go for it.
I am a girl and I touch any part of myself that turns me on. Guys just do it. Its yours and you own it!
there you go, endorsed by the fairer sex.. just what i was saying.. remember "if it gets you hot why not? (patent pending) :afro:
My wife has pegged me so if i feel like a bit of anal masturbation i just use the dildo from the the strap on. Its not exceptionally big. SOmetimes i just use a finger. Bring my legs up as far as i can and reach down between my legs to get best access. Other times our vibrator is good too. Also have a vibrating bullet which can be inserted and i can control the vibes from the corded remote.
I'll introduce myself properly later in the right section....but for now I'll just answer this question. I've had my wife put a dildo in me while giving me a bj...and it was an outstanding orgasm. and we have recently bought her a strap-on. so that she can bend me over and jack me off at the same time.
I am totally straight, but also totally into butt toys (plugs, etc.). A few tips: 1. Stainless is the way to go ($$$ but worth it) 2. If not stainless, go for pure Silicone (Tantus makes top of the line toys) 3. Enema's can be your friend, don't be scared.