I prefer that the two of us suck each other hard before he penetrates my ass and as stated above, if I don't have a prostate orgasm I would very much like him to suck me to orgasm after he's deposited his load in my ass.
I almost never cum when being taken analy. I normaly jerk off with his dick still inside me after he is finished.
If his dick is rubbing against my prostate really good, a few strokes with my hand will get me off. Otherwise he will suck me off after he cums in me.
I've cum while straddling a guy, and also while lying face down and getting plowed. Otherwise I like being stroked after he's cum in me. I've also had them cum, then leave right after, in which case I jerk off with their cum still leaking out of me
I am so inexperienced with this, but one thing I can tell you is that I had my best orgasm ever with my prostate. Sadly it was when I was by myself. And have never managed to repeat it. I was in a hotel through work. I had on my panties and nylons, and a dress I had stolen from my wifes old clothes. I amazingly managed to fine some size 9 Stillettos in Primark. I was brave enough to buy them. When in my room I slipped them on. I had already painted my toes, the feeling putting my pantyhosed feet into the heels was incredible. I walked around for a while, and was incredibly aroused. I entered my bottom with my fingers covered in lube. I laid on the bed on my back with my legs bent. I fingered myself some more then slid in my dildo, which I convinced my wife I should buy (Long story). It was huge, and took me a while to take it all. I managed it though and was so proud of myself. I waited a while so I could get used to it, and then I started to withdraw it and put it back in. For the only time ever I found G spot. The feeling was astonishing. I kept rubbing the dildo against it, and for once managed to keep going without touching my cock. Suddenly a wave came over me like I had never felt before or since sadly. Its really hard to describe. Felt like I needed to pee but couldnt stop, and wave after wave washed over me. I groaned out loud like I have never groaned before. It was so intense. I laid back and realised my cock was not even hard. But I felt the urge to cum. I stroked myself, imagining I was with a guy who had made me cum. I got hard very quickly. I came within seconds really. But what was amazing was the cum. I hadnt unloaded cum like that in years, and it shot out over my neck and chin and some hit my lips. Yes I swallowed it all. Never had sex like that ever. It was easily my best sexual moment in my whole life, but sadly for me I was all alone. I never manged to repeat it despite trying many many times, and to this day I remain an anal virgin. Starting to think I will never be taken.
When I’m being fucked I’m leaking cum according to my friend, I’ve cum hands free and after being fucked been sucked to orgasm. I prefer hands free much more intense. I still haven’t had a guy cum in me yet I’m sure I’d cum hard if my friend did. He has trouble cumming
The first guy I ever fucked (the cutest 22-year-old twink bottom you've ever seen) didn't even want his cock touched in any way. Every time I tried while tonguefucking his asshole for over an hour he stopped me. I would have loved to have sucked his cock and swallowed his beautiful cum after blasting my load into a condom deep inside his ass. But I guess he was 100% ass. It was still the greatest sexual experience of my life. OMG, I finally had my cock inside another guy's asshole; finally, after 21 years of fantasizing about it, I was fucking another man's ass, and loving it way beyond my imagination ever allowed. I can't wait to give my ass to another man in the same way someday soon, and perhaps have him even give me a hands-free prostate orgasm like I've given myself using my dildos a couple of times, imagining it was a real man fucking me. And I am PrEPed for him to cum inside of me bareback. I'm just actively searching for that special man to give my bottom virginity to.
As a bottom I've had both, blown while being fuck, other times sucked after. When I was versatile I would fuck him too.