Girls. What position would you recommend for a girl having sex for the first time. And in what position did you loose your virginity. Men also could share their experience here.
I am a man and of the 26 women I have fucked in my lifetime, I don't think any one of them was a virgin. Actually, except for the novelty of the experience, I kinda like women who were experienced by the time they got to me. My own virginity was ended by a professional sex worker for hire. (Mexican Whore, $3.00)
I know that none of the women I have with have been virgins - in fact, I think I would always prefer an experienced partner. Anyway, when I lost my virginity it was from being molested / raped by a nymphomaniac, and although I did my best to resist (yes, seriously), once that throbbing, swollen labia was presented to me my base animal procreative instincts kicked in & I plugged myself in. Being lacking in any experience whatsoever there was absolutely no style of inclusion of foreplay, or variation of positions, which meant that I stayed in the basic Missionary Position from start to finish - at first pounding away at full rate, thinking masturbation was nothing more than a simulation of intercourse, so logically, when faced with the real thing the physical action must be the same thing - however, within seconds I got screamed at to take it easy, which I did, adjusting my stroke to her body language, resulting in a far more pleasurable sensation all round. I even remember being surprised at how it was possible to reach such a climax (or to reach any climax at all for that matter) by taking things so slowly, when such a rate would be impossible while masturbating. Even though I am now far more experienced in all sorts of different techniques & sexual positions, I still find my favourite is the Missionary Position. It may well be unimaginative, but I find I need to have the dominative controlling position & the ability to attain a full length penetration (which isn't possible in other positions, such as the Doggy Position - they only allow for short stroke thrusts), in order to reach a climax.
My ex was a virgin and I took her v card. Obviously I wanted to make her first time special so I started out with hella foreplay. When I got to that part, I started with missionary (which we both later came to the conclusion that we didn't like). We also did a bit of spooning (taking her from behind while we lay down). I wanted her to not get scared or do anything complicated, and I tried hard as hell to make it slow, sexy, and romantic. The look on her face when i first went in was magical. I think missionary is a good starting point, but tell him to slow down (and make sure he does whatever he can to make it last). Make sure its good for him and memorable (in a good way) for you. One of my female friends lost it drunk in Mexico doggy style, so make your first time is the exact opposite of that.
missionary... her on bottom make sure her legs are as far apart as possible and her legs and hip/crotch area is relaxed... and go slowly
Missionary seems to be the way it first happens. But oh the joy of experimentation that follows with the new lover, new positions, new sensations. It makes me want to be an 18 year old virgin again.
Well my first time was with another virgin, and we did it missionary with him on top. The only other virgin I slept with, I rode.
well ours mine and my gf we are our firsts lol we did it in a hot tub at my parents house after prom lol it just seamed right and she loved it me it was soso mainly because of the hot tub water ruined it and nether of us climaxed because my parents where down stairs in the den watching a movie. but it was fun so i think that is cow girl with us siting facing each other we are still together and have big plans.
2 experiences with virgins (not counting my first time) First one we went with missionary, and that went pretty well. The second time we used cowgirl position. This lets the girl control how fast she takes your penis inside her, and the pain this can cause.
She was on top of me. She was far from a virgin (so she really knew what she was doing) I've never slept with a virgin before.
The music Man sang, "I hope - and I pray - that Hester will get just one more 'A'; An older but wiser girl for me!" Never had a virgin, In my teens and early twenties I was eating out thirty some gals 'fore we met in coitus. Now I'm busy with bushy 30-? year olds who want a bit of wild, dark, down and dirty sex back into their lives. So I don't know how to answer the question. With a more experienced gal, I have learned to ask, "where would you like me?." Seems to pay big dividends and give an extra BONG to the excitement.
me and my ex traded v cards and missonary was the way to do it way more intimate Practice makes perfect XD
My first was with a cheerleader, eventhough i didn't know her all that well it's still kind of cool it was with a cheerleader i guess, some sort of American fantasy thing almost. The girl i'm currently with I took her virginity. I'm glad I kind of got the virgin thing out of the way it actually was something that kind of preoccupied my mind a bit before I slept with one.
I reckon that 90%+ of first timers will use the Missionary Position when they lose their virginity, as it's the easiest & most instinctive position to adopt.