Bi/gay -finance…how do you manage money in this lifestyle? Who spends on dinning, events, sex toys, getaways/vacation etc… I can understand it may vary for everyone… Majority of the time it’s about splitting for us, unless it’s birthdays, milestone etc where I treat my bi/gay partners ….however my new lover has been spoiling me and doesn’t allow me spend a lot, him being on his own .,he knows I’m married with two young kids. Such a caring and loving partner …. Also that brings another topic? Does your wife accept you spending on your gay/bi lovers