I self lock. You? Short metal closed cage...smaller the better...enjoy orgasm denial, ruined orgasms, being controlled. Also now on meds (Ramsilson,Sertraline, Propranolol). I get weak erections and go soft quickly have difficulty cumming & notice reduced sensitivity. I lock 24/7 unless i get sore then take a day or 2 off. Who else is caged? Have a KH or self lock? Plastic or metal cage? I find solid cages best to keep skin from buldging out. Only comfy open is birdcage with bars horizontal to shaft. The ring type pinch, so I carefully squeeze the rings together to make a solid cage. Share your experiences, desires...etc.
I have never self locked. Fact is I had never thought about a cage until I was in my early 30s when I was married to my now ex-wife. on a whim one evening we decided to visit a quite large sex shop just outside of town, thinking about a new porn, VHS and a new dildo for her. While we were browsing became across a section that had cages. We have never discussed Chasity/cages before, but when she saw them, she got that look on her face. She said something to the effect of “that looks interesting“. I was like “WHAT?“ needless to say, she picked one out, found her a toy, and a video of soft BDSM. The look of shame I must’ve had on my face as we checked out. The look on the cashier face Said it off. His parting comment was “Y’all have fun”. My wife said that we would. YIKES! A Morning or two later, she was in one of her dominant moods, and out of the blue she breaks out the cage. As a first time user it took a bit to get it on me without getting hard. She relentlessly teased me all day. At times it got quite uncomfortable, But nothing compared to that night. Started making out and foreplay, and it was a game changer being locked up. Me on my back and her riding my face until she had an orgasm. Then she starts fucking herself with her new toy, and made some comment about how she didn’t need me. A BIG PUNCH IN THE GUT! After she came again, she was kind enough to unlock me. I lasted all about 30 seconds inside of her…. one of the most powerful orgasms I can remember. we did not use the cage frequently, just when she was in the mood. it was used more frequently when we got into the “hot wife“ lifestyle. During her first “date” I was at home while she was with her new BF, and I was home, jerking off, knowing what she was doing. Shortly thereafter, she had a planned date With the same guy,… The same guy she had for six months. And I knew it. She didn’t like the idea that I was home jerking off, so that morning she broke out the cage. All day I’m wearing that damn thing knowing that she is going to be getting laid that evening. Painful! so she gives me a kiss, pats me on the cage, ran off she goes. A couple hours of agony! I could not wait for her to get home and go down on her cream pie, and unlock me. Pure torture! That happened many times during those six months. my current wife has no idea, and has never broached the subject. Will be interesting to read others experiences, and fantasies.
We’ve never used a cage but the agony of waiting while I know she is being fucked in intense. I’ve also watched her and the first time I came without touching myself. They both looked at me as I spurted over the bed and then carried on fucking.
