So: I'm masturbating, about ready to cum. My girlfriend comes into the room. She asks if I would like to cum in her mouth. Unfortunately, I'm married, and my wife doesn't give head. Fuck YES I want to cum in my GF's mouth and I do. Did I just break up my marriage? Yes or No
Um, I'm thinking that because you have a girlfriend, it makes that "unfortunately" statement moot and it makes sense that you have a girlfriend who's asking if you'd like to cum in her mouth - it presumes that you've cum in her mouth before - and it's only going to break up your marriage if you wife finds out that you have a girlfriend. So... cum in her mouth since she's your girlfriend.
Sometimes, my friend, being blunt is what's called for in certain situations. Now, if she asked if you wanted to do that and you did, that's great! Never let your wife find out that (a) you have a girlfriend and (b) she likes it when you cum in her mouth.
No. My wife would NEVER take it in her mouth. She didn't even like sucking it. Only much later did we agree that I should see others for it, starting with our neighbor who we were very close with. She was the first that let me finish in her mouth and it was amazing. No, I've found that most women my age who are willing to have fun with fully expect for the finish to be in her mouth and I'm far from the first one in there. I love it and we're still married.
The thought crosses my mind this afternoon that there are still a lot of people who believe that a blowjob isn't sex and oral sex, period, isn't sex. I knew a bunch of guys who got busted because they allegedly had sex with another woman and they say, "I didn't fuck her - we just gave each other head!" - and they got off with a warning. But if the wife in question believes that anything that even remotely resembles being intimate with someone else is sex, well, yeah - don't ever let her find out that someone else is sucking you off.
No comment on the question at hand (pun intended.) Just applauding the solid reference to Clinton's legal argument about the definition of "sexual relations." That's a deep cut.
