Did she lie about virginity

My wife (sort of) claimed virginity before marriage. I would never doubt her to her face. If she had some experience, I think the damage to her churchy, prudish self image would kill her.

she didn’t have to be a virgin for me to live her and marry her. It’s the lie and her other actions that bother me.

we didn’t have sec on our wedding night due to her period. But on the next morning, she suggested a towel and period sex! Once we were about to do the deed, she grabbed my dick and guided into her pussy. What nervous virgins do that??

there are other details I can give if people want. I would appreciate insights or questions

 

I think the issues that bother you are your own suspicions and paranoia. Your view of women and virgins seems very odd to me.

Why should she be nervous?! She's with someone she's just married!

She knows what sex is about; she wasn't shy with you; she helped you to go in. Nothing of that says to me she isn't a virgin.

Virgins do indeed know stuff! Lol
They may have used toys before. Not having done a specific thing doesn't mean they don't know how - especially with something so physically simple as sex.

I think you may have a narrow view on some things and it's there that your problem may be rather than with her.

 

ok…a bit harsh since not all info was disclosed. It would require a ridiculously long post to explain.

It was my mistake to delve into one facet of the relationship that has quite a few other issues. My original post was actually triggered by something unrelated to past sexual history…funny how the mind works

 

Apologies for being harsh. Perhaps I'm tiring of posts in which guys show themselves to be negatively judgemental of women.

The limited details in the OP gave me a similar perception however, I'm willing to know more so I may be able to offer a better response and even to learn.

DM me if it's too much for a post or too private.

 

My wife claimed to be a virgin on our wedding night, but it was obvious she knew what she was doing and had developed some skills. I had heard rumors that she was having a lot of sex in college. After we had been married a while, she confessed that she was far from a virgin when we married. It was fine with me.

 

It’s not too unusual that she grabbed you, you were married and maybe she waited long enough and was eager.
However there should have been very physical signs that she was a virgin.
You should have been able to feel her hymen break when you entered her, if she was on her period there would have been blood anyway so that would not have been a dead give away.
Also is she was a virgin it would have been like sliding into a tight fist, you would know if you were the first on in there because it’s rather incredible how tight they are, and it would take a little bit before you were all the way in as it’s new territory.