first experience "truth or dare" ?

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by Questionable, Nov 19, 2006.

  1. Questionable

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    My first few and only times were playing this, and with only two people myself included. We didn't at all consider it "gay", we were just having fun. At the time it seemed like everyone played truth or dare, like it was just standard. I have searched all over the internet to find if this was just a rare deal or not and I can't find a single thing. I can't believe that that this game was something that wasn't wide spread?

    It's really strange, I know so many people that did this and it's just like it never happened.

    Am I crazy or do other people know what I am talking about?
     
  2. Crayola

    Crayola =)

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    so if i got this, u're saying u had sex with someone of the same sex on a dare?
    i dont think 100% straight pple would do it.. but 99% would if they like games, so it doesnt really say anything about u.
     
  3. Questionable

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    No I am saying that before we even had a clue what straight or gay was we would play truth or dare. This was when we were very young and this happened with three different friends. I would stay over at a friend's house or a friend would stay with me. Then we would play truth or dare.
    I mean that's why I'm asking. Looking back on it, it would seem every kid played it but it's obviously not something you would ever bring up in conversation.
    It doesn't drive me crazy but at the same time it's so strange looking back on it and I can't really believe that most people did this?
     
  4. Crayola

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    im sorry but im not sure what u're talking about... be more specific maybe?
    what i got is : u used to have gay experiences but u didnt know what u were doing, u were just playing truth or dare... yea?
     
  5. Charise

    Charise Naked to the Cosmos

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    I've read stories about this kind of thing on www.solotouch.com and it would seem to be a real common thing. You're certainly not the only one that did it, trust me.
     
  6. Questionable

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    Pretty much. To be more specific it would be "alright, suck on my **** for one minute."

    Then you went down and put it in your mouth for one minute. No moving, no sensual anything, you just did it. After the minute was up that was that. Very weird looking back on it and even more so that this happened with more than one person.

    I remember looking forward to playing it but at the same time not getting any enjoyment out of playing it.

    Above I wrote three different friends, it was two different friends. Me and two other completely different others and I was not the instigator.
     
  7. Crayola

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    i see... well yea, a lot of pple did that, children play truth or dare but when u're young u dont have an actual sexual conscience, so it doesnt really have to do with your sexual identity..
     
  8. SelfControl

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    I can't really comment as I didn't first play Truth or Dare until about a year ago. I always assumed it was a myth, one of those things they made up to make it easier to write TV show plots, like speed dating.

    Is Spin The Bottle real too then?
     
  9. whereami

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    So you were too young to know what gay or straight meant but not too young to play Truth or Dare?
     
  10. junkhead

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    yeah i think i see what you re saying
    i remember when i was a kid , me and my friend would play truth or dare,sometimes we wouldnt be playing truth or dare ,but we would playing kissing games and touching games stuff like that
    it wasnt really more out of just curiousity
    i think its pretty common
     
  11. jerrysecret

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    We use to play truth or dare in Middle School and it wasn't sucking dick, but it was touching and fondling stuff. Spin the bottle was always played with the opposite sex.
     
  12. Questionable

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    Actually yes thats exactly what I mean. Somewhere, tv or friends or something we learned about the game and thought it was the thing to do. None of us were molested or anything like that or messed up, we were typical kids, it was just the thing to do until we were maybe 8 or 9 I guess.
    I'm not gay and neither are they that I know of, but we don't talk about it and it's never even leaned that way for any of us since maturaty. Its just like "well, just boys being boys." So, that's why I am asking if anyone else ever did this deal.
    I guess it was an anamoly or some crazy deal, I don't know.
     

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