I am planning on fingering my girl-friend for the first time, It will be my first time ever fingering a girl. I have basically no idea what I'm doing. Anybody got some pointers, advice, whatever. Just help on how too get it started and stuff like that. Anything you know or experiences would be helpful. Thanx
www.clitical.com check out the female anatomy so you know where what is.. make sure your finger(s) are wet (spit or her own moist) so it slides.. stimulate her clit as well as her vagina.. but start out slowely to get her worked up.. don't just start rubbing like crazy! Start massaging her.. working up towards the tighs.. go from there. Wetness is a sign you're doing well.. as well as when her labia get more redish and a bit swolen. For finding the G-spot insert a finger in her vagina and curl it up in a 'come here' motion. Make sure your nails are trimmed and fingers are clean! Feel free to pm or ask any other questions here!
velvet gave a decent how-to first off, congratualtions pimp daddy secondly, coming from me(im decent at eating pussy, but i could be a pianist witht he finger skills i got) heres what to do. first off dont go directly for the pussy. play with her tits for a minute or two, then work your way down the navel(tummy) and dance your fingers across her puss and continue to the thighs. start close to the knee and rub her inner thighs and slowly work your way down. once you get to the vagina just slowly rub up and down the length of the entire pussy with ur 4 fingers. after doing that for a second i always use my ring and pointer fingers to kinda of spread the labia and use my middle finger to dance around the clit before i start stimulating it. stimulate the clit always before you penetrate with your finger. once you have worked ont he clit for a while she should be wet enough for you to go ahead and slip your finger in. youll probably be in the postion of sitting next to her so youll have your palm to her pubic region. once you ahve penetrated curl your finger towards your own palm(like the spiderman symbol using only ur middle) and you should be able to feel like g-spot. it should feel like a little bean under the skin. dance around it in a circle motion slowly moving inward. finally stimulate that and if you are able(it takes practice but one day u will be) stimulate her clit with your thumb at the same time. hope this helps buddy peace + pussy for all
extra note on the G-spot thingie: a lot of girls aren't used to a vaginal (g-spot) orgasm and stimulation of the g-spot can get annoying after a while, because it feels like you have to pee reallll bad. So.. if I were you.. focus more on the clit than on the g-spot, unless you're sure she really likes it. A good hint is if she moans extra or thrusts her hips at you when you stimulate her g-spot. Personally I more like the feeling that I'm being 'stretched' than the actual stimulation itself. Good luck! And if you think your screwing up, don't be afraid to ask her for directions Maybe you'll get a nice show out of it
i think the most important thing is asking her to be vocal. tell her to tell you what she wants, what feels good, what feels realllllyyy good, how fast to go and so on and so worth. and just play around with it until you get the stroke right. make sure to go slow and tease her, get her really horny because getting her wet makes things alot easier.
