Who is leading your gay relationship? Your or your partner…..it should be equal I have been seeing this amazing 25yrs old sexy fit gym Latino hunk past few months now, we opened up to be in relationship and as I wanted open gay relationship he was fine with that, things are going well then I thought at the beginning…..but I find that he is very obsessed over me and always showing ways to shower love to me ….we sleep together once a week, I stay over at his place and head home next morning thanks to blessings from my wife…it has been three weeks like this … there are times I feel guilty not showing enough emotions in our love. I do love him and I’m all over him and I want him long term as per our open relationship commitment… i want to ensure I’m also doing what I can to elevate the relationship… Being married, young father at the same time want more cocks…I feel I’m not doing enough for my gay lover ….
My partner leads our relationship. I am learning to also push and have equal control. He is much younger than me, very much the dominant partner. There is a big part of me that has come to know this is what I like, but with that, comes times when I am disappointed. That's the part I am learning to push a little more. I want him to show me more emotions. He jokes or otherwise gets uncomfortable with my emotions. I want him to tell me things... and I want him to listen to me without trying to fix my thing. Sometimes I am amazed as to the male/female role we are in - and many men do not like to be pigeonholed into this, but I think it is quite often true in man2man partnerships. I've heard people become quite upset when they hear the question "which one of you is the bottom?" Well, in my relationship that position takes on a whole lot more meaning than just what sexual position do I take. I've got my "sisters" and we know who we are... that doesn't mean that my man can't cook, or clean, or do dishes. Actually, he is quite capable on all of that and a whole lot more. And so am I. There's just a unique difference - once you get to know other gay couples, you can almost tell without asking a single question.
