On my 50th Birthday, we had a party and my surprised me with a Belly Dancer. After the party, she proved to be more then a Belly Dancer. Everyone had gone and she had returned to get paid. When she came back, she gave me a private striptease and lap dance. That was hard enough to enjoy with my wife sitting there watching, even though she told me to relax and enjoy it. But, when she moved back and began to 0pen my zipper, my heart almost stopped. I looked over at my wife in astonishment and she said "Happy 50th Sweetie, enjoy it". Then the stripper proceeded to pull out my cock, put a rubber on it, then sucked me until I came(which wasn't as long as I would have liked). Later, I thanked my wife for a great party and a super wonderful surprise gift. She said I was quite welcome and I should remember this when it's her 50th. Well, that time is comming soon and I have to make a decision. Do I get her a male stripper and let her have some fun with him? I would be cool with her having innocent fun for her birthday, but where would I draw the line or should I even have to? My thinking is to hire a male stripper and let her do whatever she wants him to do to her, or her to him, as long as it's safe sex. Being able to accept that, my next querry was if I should be there, like she was with me, and wittness it?
Yes you should do the same for your wife. Yes you should stay and watch, and yes you should let her go as far as she wants, as long as it's safe, and as long as you are sure Y O U can handle it. It would be terrible if everything was going well, and you got a jealous attack and weirded out. Good luck, and let us know how things went. By the way, your wife is pretty cool and pretty open minded to give you a gift like that.
Very cool gift, very cool wife. I think you can do the same for her if you are sure you won't have any insecurity attacks during the process and only watch if you want to and if she wants you to....
We talked about it and we have made some decisions. It was impossible to surprise her, especially since she was sort of expecting it. She came right out and asked me if I was getting her a special present as promised. When I told her that I was, she wanted to know some details. I told her that she could be as uninhibited as she wanted with him. She has a Free Pass to do anything that she wanted without any hangups about doing it. We also decided that I was going to be present and watch. After talking about it, I would probably regret not watching. She said that she enjoyed watching me enjoying things when she gave me my present. We don't have insecurity with each other about doing it and I am getting more excited myself, by the minute, at the thought of watching her. She is the best and deserves to have a very special great time on her birthday.
Yeah, exactly my thoughts. I mean, seeing more than one person at a time has never been my thing, but if someone isn't married then I guess they can be with as many people as they want. If they go to the trouble of actually getting married though, it seems a bit messed up to me to go and sleep with other people. The whole point of marriage is that you commit to one person only. If you want to have an open relationship with someone and it's agreed between the two of you ahead of time, why get married? I say either have an open relationship with a person or decide to commit and marry them. Marrying a person, and then being with other people, kind of defeats the whole point of marriage.
