Girls..much difference with pillow under butt in missionary?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by CopperT87, Oct 8, 2012.

  1. CopperT87

    CopperT87 Guest

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    So I am not very big..about 5" and the girl I just started going out with is a little bigger when it comes to her body. We have not had sex yet, just foreplay/oral. I'm thinking that a pillow under her butt would give me a much better angle and get me in a little deeper and maybe a better position for the actual motions which would let me go longer without discomfort (my arms are not too strong for the pushup like position).

    Does it make much of a difference when it comes to pleasure for you girls in that position?
     
  2. Mayor Salt

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    Yeah, totally, it depends on the situation but in missionary a pillow under my butt totally helps with the angle of penetration with regards to my clitoral stimulation.
     
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    and its easy on my back too.. :)
     
  4. Jo King

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    i like using a pillow when i'm going down on her
     
  5. nz male

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    Try placing a pillow under her hips when shes lying face downwards - that makes it even better for rear penetration - vagina / anal.
     
  6. silk896

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    I find a pillow just opens you up more to whatever's out there!!!!

    Works either way - face up or face down.
     
  7. chili

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    Helps to get in real deep
     
  8. Lady-Lover

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    A pillow makes it loads better for both of us.
     
  9. kevinprince

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    also for us the pillow is a nice thing
     
  10. AmyBeachGirl

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    Why not use your tongue like most guys.
     
  11. drumminmama

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    Cooper, what do you mean by bigger body? Are you working around belly, height difference? What?

    And yes, pillows are great for tipping the pelvic bowl, and increasing clitoral stimulation.
     
  12. CopperT87

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    She is a little overweight but it's not the belly, I guess it's the upper legs and whole area. Basically it's not like a kinny girl where her vagina is just a lot easier to access.

    I used the pillow and it worked good. I am kinda worried about other positions than her on top and missionary though, I don't think I will penetrate her much but I guess I'll try haha.
     
  13. drumminmama

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    Sorry on the misread on your name Copper. I know too many Coopers!

    In reality, if a penis gets in 2-3 inches, everything is AOK.

    In addition to the pillow, try a position where you are above her, but not the typical missionary.
    This isn't the one I'm thinking of, but start here.
     
  14. Rebecakasak

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    Certainly a pillow is much/too elevation, its more comfortable to use a folded towel or just tiltmy pelvis myself. Its about finding the right angle of penetration.
     
  15. Bent Cold Sidewalk

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    you could put her legs on your shoulders.
     
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  17. true-blue

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    effect equal to a pillow under the butt?
     
  18. RabidAces

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    My boyfriend is about the same size and I am a bigger girl. I'm happiest with one of two positions thus far:

    1- Doggy. Face down, ass up. We go at it like this then he will have me lay flat down with a pillow under my hips (to raise my ass just a bit), legs closed and just puts all his weight down on me and grinds. It's phenomenal!

    2- start out missionary but then he either holds my legs up against his chest, with my knees together, or my legs go up over his shoulders. A pillow below does help this position.
     
  19. Sassygurl

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    Missionary with a pillow under is one of my fav positions

    But both of these examples are fantastic as well:
    In our session last week we started with me on top, then went to example 1 (as above) and then example 2 (as above) and then onto missionary with a pillow...it was great because we got to cum together and its been awhile since I've been able to cum just from penetration...I think the varied positions in one session totally helped that.....so be sure to mix it up ;)
     
  20. monkjr

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    Do you girls think that having a pillow under the butt, is 99% of the time always a good idea when a girl has sexual intercourse for the first time? Of course other aspects matter, but in terms of this one detail in of itself, it's always a good small detail for the boy to pay mind too.
     

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