I went for months without, since my friends had gone. I had no idea how to meet anyone , safely and discretely. It was my wife who hooked me up with both my first and my second friends. Once again she came through with an old business friend. He is another horny old guy who likes to have fun, but he was in a similar dilema. Thanks to facebook(people you may know), they reunited. It took off from the first time we all got together.
that's a pretty amazing way to make a connection with someone for that nature of things. My partners have come through online dating sites and ads I've answered, or just simply exploring cruising spots I learned about. I would say most of these were one time things, but I have developed nice connections with a few guys who I've met with over the course of a year or so - it's good. I look forward to each time we meet. Each guy is different, and I find it to be a lot of fun.
It’s been all online and ads for me. Haven’t really found a regular. I travel so that helps. Locally the selection is the usuals. Lots of flakes unfortunately
I've shared here in the past that I've hooked up with many men through CL back in the day. Was a great place for closeted married cock suckers to meet other likeminded married men. I've also met many other guys at local parks, pubs, and the gym. This June will mark 14 years that I met my regular guy through CL for mutual oral. We instantly hit it off that first day we hooked up to suck each other off and have been regularly doing so since then. We've also been lucky to have shared other men with each other that we've met individually to make for some very enjoyable afternoons and evenings.
All of my active bi sexual activity happened before the internet came into its own as a meeting place so I met most of my contacts through adult magazines which ran adverts for people who wanted to make contact. There were adverts for singles, couples, 3'sums, bi sex, gay, any combination you could think of.. Some of the weekly tabloid newspapers ran adult personal adverts as well and finally there were porno cinemas and public toilets. The George Michael phenomena was alive and well in New Zealand back in the 1980's and 1990's.
All of my bisexual partner’s have been through online dating sites. I have yet to find a guy organically in public.
I have either been lucky, or have a way of knowing a guy it bi. My first was a coworker. Met quite a few in my business traveling. A lot at parks that are cruising. Some moderate success on sniffies. I do prefer meeting organically. Seems to put more thrill in it.
Coffee shop diners with a counter leads to conversations and those lead to how the wife has little interest in sex. The gym and especially the shower has led to more than one bi friend. Bath houses have led to a couple friends. My buddy has brought co-workers around for blow jobs.
I need to take coaching lessons from you! Do you bring that subject up while having coffee and a donut? How do you get around to that?
Hey, how's it goin? good... good, except for the wife... why, what's up with her? well, she stopped sucking my dick in 1983, see...and... oh, wow... well, just so happens (clears throat) ... really? you're kidding... no, man. I love to suck dick. I'll tell you what, let's go into the bathroom. You wont' regret it. OK. wow, sounds great to me.