I've had the same roommate in college for about year. The only good chance I get to masturbate comfortably is when I do it at night while he is sleeping. I know there has been times where he had to have caught me since I can hear turn on his other side or something sometimes. He's never mentioned anything for or against it. I mean, I usually only do it when I wake up in the middle of the night since I am always sporting a morning wood anyway. I'm always quiet about it. I just sometimes feel bad on those nights I hear moving around because I'm not going to be able to go back to sleep until I can take care of myself. What's your opinion on masturbation over night?
It's a lot easier for us women -- no tent under the covers, nothing to clean up. You'd be surprised at how quiet an orgasm can be, nothing like all those moaning, bucking, squelchy ones you see in porn. Hand into the panties -- just watch that telltale snap of elastic as you slip past the waistband -- a few discreet orbits around the clit, and voila -- heaven. I did it all through college, and I presume my roommates did, too. Never caught, as far as I know, nor did I ever catch them -- well, I did hear some squeaky bedspring and rustling sheets a couple of times. But a girl's got to do what a girl's got to do.
in small quarters such as a dorm room sometimes it is fun to put a cup on your sleeping roommates head and try to splooge into the cup....if i was a sleeping room mate and i woke up to you rubbing one off i think i would maybe hit you or at the least...throw something heavy at your knob
That's weird you'd want to throw things at his dick. Why don't you just suck it? And sure why not. But on a personal level don't you feel fucking weird jerking off while someone else is in the room. Just by feeling it's not something that would let me get off.
Not if it was my college dorm-there wasn't even any doors in the stalls. There were more private bathrooms in some of buildings, but if it was the middle of the night-a guy's got to do what a guy's got to do. That would turn me on and make me want to masturbate. Of course if I was a guy and it was a female roommate as yours was, there would be an instant tent. I must admit I jerked off plenty of times when my male roommate was sleeping. As far as I know he never heard me, I was pretty careful. There were times when I had trouble sleeping I would listen intently to hear any signs of my roommate jacking off. Never caught him. Although my 1st semester with an assigned roommate, I caught him several times and watched his morning ritual on several occasions, but that is another story for another day.
yes, havent you? .. where else you going to go? its just a natural body function like taking a shit.. Some people take it to personal, its like blowing your nose to others.. nothing is intimate about it, it helps with focus and is one the top stress relievers..
I prefer the ladies but guys blowing each other is totally cool and is another thread...you would think someone with 'head' in their user name would know tons about cock?
I must admit I jerked off plenty of times when my male roommate was sleeping. As far as I know he never heard me, I was pretty careful. Quiet orgasms can be the most intense orgasms -- holding back, keeping that explosive feeling in. I do it sometimes next to my sleeping husband.
If he's asleep, who's gonna know? If he doesn't say anything about it don't worry about it as long as you're careful not to sound off too much
I like ROLLINGALONG'S cup idea. If you did that to me I'd probably stab you, but you should definately try that...
i used to when i was at college. i think it depends how much it would upset your roommate if you got caught. some might be freaked but others like mine would probably just be cool with it
It never ceases to amaze me in this day & age just how much stigma is still attached to masturbation. While it is openly stated in all forms of sex education that it is a perfectly normal & healthy activity, with many health benefits, both mentally & physically, it is still viewed as something to be ashamed of. Terms such as 'Wanker', or Jerk' are still used as terms of derision, yet in reality everyone is a Wanker - and should be proud to be such. Even more curious is that during puberty / adolescence it is quite common for boys (and probably girls too) to shamelessly participate in group masturbation sessions, after only a few short years once they move on to college & university, it suddenly becomes a taboo subject. Why? Masturbate with pride.
How would you feel if He was doing it? If you woke up an he was pounding away. Personally id join in.....