Is Penetration the Only "Best Sex" there is?

Hey!

So, I have wondered if actual sex, is the only best sex there is. In this new age of modern technology, I have roleplayed, had cam sex, phone sex, all outside of actual penetration. Don't get me wrong I love actual sex, but being in a long-distance situation, I have learned other forms of pleasure with my partner and have experienced some incredibly powerful orgasms.

So, what do you think, is actual sex the only and best sex there is?

 

I think it depends on who you are with. in my experiences over the years,, women are so different. I had never failed to get a woman off with my mouth….NEVER…. until I met my current wife. The first time we were “together“, I was going down on her and would get her right to the brink, and she would stop me. WTH? Rinse and repeat. Same thing! She finally said “inside me“, and she came like gangbusters a couple of times. And all of these years, she has never come, unless I was inside of her. GO FIGURE!

 

My wife enjoyed mini orgasms from oral or vibrator and just play, but her big orgasm was from deep penetration.

 

If by actual sex you mean penetration, then definitely not. There are plenty of ways to achieve intimacy and orgasms. They don't have to involve penetration.

As far as the best goes, if I think about some of my most memorable sexual experiences, only a few of them involved intercourse/penetration.

 

I find that sex can be very satisfying even only with hands, oral with the right person.
And penetration is so intimate.

 

There are many different ways to get pleasure that are very satisfying and are a good substitute but I find flesh on flesh to be the best.

 

Yes, flesh on flesh
The touch, the contact

 

The connection and penetration between the male and female is primal. Yes, there are many ways to get sexual pleasure but penetrative sex and the feeling of being “one” together connected is human nature. Many times my wife and I will connect just to be one with each other. Not necessarily fucking just connecting. She’s not wanting me to cum, she just needs my manhood in her.

 

I have been fortunate to have countless partners over the years and it depends upon the scene, the mood and the partners are their desires for the moment. Extended foreplay, oral, anal, penetration. Fast, slow, combinations. A short interlude or a long marathon. Hot and sweaty or slow and romantic. Soft background music or hard loud rock. Candles and incense or daytime lights. The best part is sometimes all of the above

 

It seems to me that OP is referring to long-distance relationships when they say non-penetrative sex. In those cases, it depends a lot on the emotional connection that is established, as the mind plays the most important role in those situations.

 

Actual sex to me is penetrative in my vagina, ass or mouth and that is what has brought me countless orgasm. I also find excitement in virtual sex (like with guys on this forum) and when everything is just right, I can have great orgasms simply from a free flowing chat!

 

I've had many great climaxes chatting here and elsewhere or sometimes just masturbating after a particularly great PM that go me going. I swear I've met people virtually with who sex in person would likely be less stimulating that chats and pic posts. I've felft that way for years although I've on occassion met people in person after having fun online.

 

IMO, no....it's not, flashback to my first sexual experience....it was with a girl that would become my first serious girlfriend...we had been out on a date and were making out, she had unbottoned her top and pulled her boobs out of her bra, and we had our hands down each others pants, rubbing and fingering...and were both very hot and horny. All at once she kind of pulled back from me and said I need to get something out of the way.....and pulled off her jeans and panties and laid back on the seat of my truck, and spread her legs....I thought oh wow, she wants to fuck, and started taking my jeans off,
she said I want to see your cock but I won't fuck if that's what your thinking. I said no problem, we can do other things.....and I ended up eating my first pussy, it was her first time getting eaten, she sucked me off, it was her first time giving a bj, and my first time getting one....that was over forty years ago and the memory is still fresh in my mind. So...to me anyway, doing oral on your partner is far more erotic and sensual than penetration alone ( which, don't get me wrong, is fantastic ) being willing to use your mouth to sexually pleasure your partner means you're also using your senses of smell and taste to experience your partner...and makes it a supercharged sexual experience....

 

So.....if oral is the only way a woman will allow me to experience her sexully...I'm great with that !! My wife has a few friends that I'd love to fuck, but if all they wanted was their pussy eaten....I'd be happy to take care of that anytime they wanted......

 

That is why there are many types of dildos available. It depends on what type of orgasm you desire.

 

Good point!

 

I agree, lol during a good chat, I can also orgasm. That’s why I like following you, your always fun

 

Likewise good

Likewise good man!

 

I like penetration up the arse the feeling of tightness around my shaft, it can be unpleasant for some women as I have experienced sex should be enjoyable

 

Intercourse is my least favorite part of sex. I don't dislike it. I just enjoy giving oral, mutual masturbation and making out more. My enjoyment of intercourse can be anywhere along the spectrum of "Alright, guess now I gotta do the thing this was headed towards while I'm still getting erections" to "Holy fuck, that was actually really fucking good!"

In fact, moving my penis in and out of a vagina is my least favorite part of intercourse. Again, I don't hate it. But I like all the other stuff me and the other person do while we're having intercourse. Like making out. Locking eyes intensely for a brief moment. Pressing my penis in really deep and just holding it there for a few seconds. Holding a woman down in a sexy way. Dirty talk. Rubbing a woman's clit or watching her rub her clit as we fuck. Yadda yadda yadda...