Wife and started into the LS. Had a side by side with another couple. The wife was bi curious and the side by side advanced to the girls being together. She tells me now she’s bi, but I’m okay with that, actually thrilled. The ladies have no boundaries with each other and the men can only touch and kiss above the waist on opposite partners. We had another meeting with these boundaries. It was super hot. After our first meeting the other couple made it very clear that they would love to do a full swap. Wife wasn’t thrilled about me being with another woman, but, now would love to have a FFM. However my wife doesn’t want to advance with her husband. She’s not attracted enough to have oral or vaginal sex with him. I don’t want her to take one for the team. What should I do? Be happy with the current situation? Look for another couple we both would click with? what’s been your experience?
We started while living together, before we married. Lots of soft swing with one couple. I did a few even with her present. She was willing but much the same way not real attracted to the other guy. Basically, it was tough finding couples we were both attracted to. We were open to single guys and girls, she found a guy she liked, and after first time opened up a bit.
Threesomes or more get complicated but it's usually more complicated in the beginning. IF it ultimately works out, people get comfortable. My friend loves a threesome with two other men and she requires that they also suck each other. One was into it right away. The other was reluctant. That was at the beginning. Now, it's very easy. And with her, the one who was williing to suck another cock was the one she wasn't attracted too. Frankly, she wanted someone with a bigger cock but once they all got comfy she found that he had the size cock that would plug her ass nicely without too much work so the guy she prefers not to get pussy fucked by is now the guy who screws her bottom and the only one who gets all three holes. And also, the two men really don't like each other. Not in a mean way but it's clear to everyone that it's her they want which she LOVES. You never know. I keep asking to be on the bench but so far, it hasn't happened. They make nice videos though!