Ladies: is it important to you for your man to cum inside of you?

Does your man cumming inside of you add to the pleasure, or is it just part of "the act"?

 

if they're trying to get pregnant, it's extremely important.

 

It's been an integral part of sex in all my relationships. Most of the dirty talk I do with my girl is based around me cumming in her and she has stated that sex isn't complete if she doesn't get my load in her pussy. And I happen to agree with that; there is absolutely no chance I am pulling out.

I am pretty sure most women would prefer it that way if it was possible, it's just that guys these days are scared to death of getting a girl pregnant and won't do it. So when the girls meet a guy like me, it becomes an act that we both relish. Girls mostly dig the mental stimulation, knowing that they're going to be carrying a part of their man inside them, makes them feel sexy all day while some cum keeps trickling out of their pussies and reminding them of the act.

 

Personally it is not that important for my BF to cum in me, I like it on me (face or titties) down my throat is always good.....it's all good

 

I love it.

 

If I am making love with a man, yes, I want him to ejaculate inside me; preferably my vagina or botty - mouth not so much, but that's still better than him pulling away and dribbling it on me.
maybe I'm just hard-wired genetically from my ancestors, but for me, receiving semen is such an integral part of lovemaking. I love to feel it inside and although admittedly most of it eventually ends up either on a tissue or making "the wet spot" I somehow feel incomplete if it's not there.

For that reason (amongst others) I loathe condoms.

 

I prefer it when a guy cums inside me. I don't know, it just feels so much more satisfying when you can feel thick loads of cum being shot deep inside of you. The feeling of it so naughty and hot and even gets me off if the guy has lots of it. I also love feeling like a slut in sex so often times I'll pull him out do I'm not getting any pleasure and jerk him off with my titties till he cums in my mouth. Just me though.

 

You can feel it "deep inside you," huh? lol

 

It doesn't bother me if I cum inside my wife or not, so long as she gets me to cum just thru stimulating me with her fingers or I just cum with gettimg really aroused in other ways. I use condoms for birth control so cum what may lol

 

A recent study State University of New York, Galluop, Birch, Platteck) has shown that semen contains many chemicals and/or reacts with female bodily fluids that alter a woman's mental behavior:

It follows research which shows that seminal fluid contains chemicals that elevate mood, increase affection, induce sleep and also contain at least three anti-depressants.
The researchers also claim that women who have regular unprotected sex are less depressed and perform better on cognitive tests.


Semen contains another of chemicals along with spermatozoa, including cortisol, which is known to increase affection, estrone, which elevates mood and oxytocin, which also elevates mood.


It also contains thyrotropin-releasing hormone (another antidepressant), melatonin (a sleep-inducing agent), and even serotonin (perhaps the best-known antidepressant neurotransmitter).


Another study from Europe indicates that female bodily fluid has the same effect on men, who adsorb the chemicals through penile glands.

 

I had a girlfriend who loved me to cum inside of her. The first time we were together without a condom, it freaked me out because she didn't warn me and when I tried to pull out she wrapped her legs around me and pulled me deeper inside of her when she knew I was cumming. At first I thought she was trying to trap me by getting pregnant until she told me she was on the pill. After that it was game on! I always came in her pussy and she loved to hold me inside of her. I would keep fucking her until I came again or went limp. Later in our relationship she would also prefer me to cum in her ass which was really hot.
With my wife, she prefers that I would cum inside of her, but she can't do the pill for medical reasons, so I usually pull out or she is happy to let me cum in her mouth.

 

My wife dislikes the leaking of spooge that occurs for several hours or days after, but says that sex doesn't feel "complete" without it. Our brains are weird, aren't they?

 

Why do people say this? The bolded part I mean. I've just started having sex, and it's just absolutely beautiful. Why do people say it's "naughty" or "dirty"? Is it a religious thing?

On topic: Sweet Bleeding Christ that feels so intense. I love feeling that. Especially when Josh stares into my eyes when he orgasms. I don't even know the words to tell how that makes me feel.

 

Because...in real life nobody talks like that, but instead some people seem to think that's how you should talk about sex.

Personally, I can't take them seriously once they start on the "I'm so naughty and dirty and slutty". Totally absurd. It's the language of a teenage boy fantasising about the adult world of sex. They've been watching to many porn films I think.

 

Not really. Being "naughty", "kinky", "dirty" or "slutty" might infer to participating in some kind of an activity that is perceived as a taboo. For instance, the allure of anal sex comes largely from the fact that it's considered a "taboo", something that makes you feel "naughty" when you're participating in it. Not just porn people, but regular people as well. Plus I think you would be surprised how many girls actually enjoy dirty talk.

 

on the internet, that's what most of them are.

 

You're just 25, and thanks to the internet in our modern culture you've practically grown up thinking that is the norm - it really isn't, and your perception is therefore warped.

Anyway, thanks for explaining to me how those words might be used, I may never have known otherwise.

As a "regular" person I can't say I ever feel even slightly "naughty" when having anal sex - just happy.

Doubtless if one looked hard enough one could find an example of a woman who liked "dirty talk" but I have yet to meet one. I think most women would just laugh at that kind of comical language.

 

^^ That!, the "putting some of me Inside her" part also makes ME feel good.
She also commented on my loads being sizeable and she enjoys feeling it being injected Inside her, it made e feel manly to be told , and i can really feel it gets her off, she's a mostly silent girl but when i cum she moans/gasps/breathes hard. We both really like it so ever since then i'vestarted taking habits like drinking as much water as i can, eating apples, putting the water all the way to cold and praying my balls with it before leaving the shower, to produce as much sperm as possible all the time.

Oh, you actually wanted to know if it's IMPORTANT to her.

Yes, it is, i came outside once and she didn't go mad at me but she felt kind of insulted.

 

Oh, one more detail.
One time we did it and stayed "connected" (We really like to do that until i get soft, sometimes we do just to sleep this way but we often can resist making love once we get there lol) but we fell asleep before we realised it was time to "disconnect"

We woke up, we checked the sheets and everything was clean. When i realised she had "absorbed" it all, i felt a very strong feeling of love. I was surprised/impressed and very happy.

The first time she (by surprise) swallowed my load i felt the same thing, but even more powerful and sudden, like thunder or something. Until then i never knew i cared, after all, at that point, i'm done. But when she did it, i felt it, and it's strong. I wanted to kiss her forever and let her know how strong the love i was feeling Inside (also applies to the above paragraph...)

Anyway, i thought it might be interesting to mention it because it brought strong feelings that even i had never expected it would...

 

Yes, to put it simply, the association of any 3 of the Abrahamic religions (Judaism, Christianity, Islam) and all sexual concepts to the concept of them being dirty, impure, and sinful are linked. It's been that way for so long it's ingrained in our cultural references.

And even though the Bible clearly states that, sexual union within marriage is SANCTIFIED (encouraged, not sinful, allowed by God) there still remains, what I think, is a stupid debate within the religious community about what sexual positions are and aren't allowed by God.

In my humble opinion, the Bible doesn't specify, so unless a sex act implies you mutilate or kill your partner, it's okay by the bible, and any debate arguing against sexual matters within marriage is a waste of time.

Swinging is banned by the Bible explicitly though, so there's no debate there.

Other topics of debate are:

1. Sex toys
2. Was Jesus married? Did he have kids?
3. Emotional infidelity (Impure thoughts)
4. Is masturbation sinful or I feel guilty doing it


^Those kind of problems. Argh I declare I am a Christian, but sometimes I look upon my fellow Christians and just feel bad for all the extra hassle they put themselves through for actions that are interpreted paranoia rather than straightforward scripture or doctrine.

 

Okay, so there you go.

You have your perception based on your generation and possibly social class, religious factors etc, whereas mine is based on my own observations of the particular demographic that I belong to. Neither one is "warped"; the circumstances are different.

That said, I have only ever come across ONE woman who did NOT get turned on by dirty talk.