Learning to use "edging" during masturbation?

In male masturbation, there is a technique whereby just before the point of no return, you stop completely, wait for a short period then start again... and repeat the process, with practice you can build up a rhythm and have an almost endless orgasm... in theory.

In practice, this is considered an advanced technique, and finding the right moment to stop, and when to start again can take a lot of practice.... and it seems that many people cannot do this more than 2 or 3 times without loosing the flow... Since what you're doing is exploiting the fact that ejaculation and orgasm are two separate processes it is possible when one gets this wrong to miss the orgasm entirely, which is quite disappointing.. lol.

I read the posting about when people first learned to Masturbate, and it reminded me of this... I started at age 9-10 and was quite adventurous, but one thing I learned how to do completely by accident was "edging"... this was well before puberty, and I was 11-12 before I could ejaculate, and it got me thinking, it was quite easy for me to do before puberty, and thinking about it... it was much harder to do it afterwards, infact.. I think that if I had not learned before I might not have done it. Maybe that is why it's considered something which is so hard to do, and people struggle to learn.

So, my questions are... did anyone else learn this technique before puberty, and did it seem to be harder to balance after puberty to you too?... Also, if you have learned it since, was it difficault?

Finally, I suppose, to whoever has used this technique... how long have you been able to keep an orgasm going uninterrupted.... 30 seconds, a minute?...

 

I never edged before puberty. I was in my early 60's when I first started doing it. What a terrific feeling! I did not have longer orgasms but several, one after the other. My best was 6 times in 30 minutes.

 

The trick is to gradually reduce the time you spend waiting, which reduces the time you can spend stroking without going over the edge... it should be possible to get it down to less than 10 seconds or less a go which is kinda like 5-6 orgasms a minute... more or less continuous, it takes major willpower, and practice tho!

 

Huh I do this all the time but I never knew there was like a specific term for it. Learn something new every day, I guess. Anyway yeah, I've had some nice marathons where I just queue up a bunch of porn and go at it for like an hour

 

girls can do it too its not just a male thing

 

i use this quite often and if u can go for hours even days u can build up a huuuuuge cumload, i try to do it for as long as possible before i see my girlfriend and then wen i do cum i'll cover her! mainly splatter her cute face or her sexy feet! she loves it, the more the better for her, sometimes she'll tell be to work up a massive load!

J

 

yer i use this quite often although i have to say i usually lack the will power to go at it for any more then 20 mins or so

 

I do it occasionally but one time I got to over an hour of edging, I got blue balls so bad, I had to relieve myself...my balls kept hurting for a day after...

 

I used to do this a lot when I was in my 20's. I could go for hours (2,3 even 4) but the orgasm was not really that much more than a regular quickie. Balls definitely start to ache. The semen would turn watery though. I guess it has a shelf life. I would shoot really far though. Like 6 - 8 feet. I miss those days.

 

Heh, I got my boyfriend into this. He loves it. When I'm not around I can still torture him with anticipation. lol We're kind of kinky, he likes me to order him around sexually

 

I did this since 8.When i began ejaculating,it was more adventurous.Sometimes i torture myself over a week,edging often a day. I love edging when i go hiking in the nude.BUT,i have found that i can get myself to a point of controlled release,without a full orgasm,and it spreads it over a longer period.I wank to the 'throbbing' phase,and then,wait,the penis releases pre-cum,and the immediate presure,yet its not a full orgasm,or rather,its an orgasm without a full ejaculation. IT's wicked!And when u do orgasm and cum,its murderousely dellicious

 

I have enjoy edging immensly. I have found it to not only provide rediculous pleasure I have also found that it has helped me to be a better partner as i have better controll than most men That said, a couple of questions:

1`)has anyone found that keeping staying in highly aroused state but, not close to the PON for a period of time prior to the stop and start session to be of benefit (I used to go to strip club for a few hours before going home to edge) does this help preload for the end release

2) I have found edging without release over several days to really build up tention. I am not sure if it makes it realy better in the end or just makes me ache to come. Kind of like eating when you are really hungry things taste better. Any thoughts.

To the person that did not feel it was better in the end. It is important (for me anyway) that if I have come close to the PON several times and have maintained a high level of arousal it is best to allow myself to "calm down" before i let go. This allow me to enjoy all the stages. If I simply "oops" I have already orgasmed essentially so I simply release semen without much pleasur

 

I really enjoy this. i am trying to find a way to have sex with my wife and incorporate this but, it is challangeing.

Anyone been able to work this into partnered sex?

 

when is the orgasm? I feel it is the point of a nice hard cock, head full, precum flowing ... then to ride, edge, whatever to maintain this orgasm before the climax, the ejaculation ... in this definition I have watched an entire second half of an NFL football game, the closer and more intense the better ...

 

Never was able to do it with my partner. I was always too worked up to control myself. Perhaps if we had sex more often it would be easier to maintain control.

 

"Edging" is really a great feeling!!! I can go on for more than two hours and the orgasm is always GREAT!!!!!!

 

I'm 63 and I do "edging" 2 or 3 times a week for 6 or more hours.
It's absolutely great, much bether than fucking!!

 

Definitely very easy to get it wrong.

 

My suggestion is that the younger you are and can start conditioning your brain to accept medium paced stimulation over long periods of time, until the faced hard stimulation the more and more endurance you have a chance at developing.

But like any exercise the endurance has to be maintained.