It's a matter of mood, really. Whenever I like to release my lust fast, I stroke my cock fast and grip tight... this gets me off fast, and is good for a quick relieve, lasting no longer than 5 minutes tops. However, when stroking slowly, I take my sweet time, using both hands, a good amount of lube and take care of the whole length of my shaft, gently and tenderly massaging my balls as well, somtimes fingering my anus for intensifying the feeling. When masturbating this way, I spend sometimes more than half an hour, bringing myself close to orgasm, slowing down again, building it up... sometimes I exercise the tantric deep draw, before building up again to a very strong and powerful ejaculation. It really depends on my mood. When being loaded after a nice smoke, my orgasms get even more intense, and I prefer the slow and powerful way, then. Well, this gives me an idea, what I'll do after finishing this post. :spliff: :drool: ~*Ganesha*~
I prefer slow. I like to tease myself incessantly and like my partners to do the same to me. It makes for one hell of an orgasm.
I usually look at porn for a while (30 mins or so) and touch myself a bit at that time. When I'm done with that I usually spend about 1-2 minutes rubbing myself quickly for the release.
I'm currently having to learn how to masturbate all over again as a result of a recent circumcision. Before the operation I would begin, just as I would when having sex, by taking things as slowly as possible, with the glans being totally protected by the foreskin, until I started to approach orgasm, at which point, once again, as which actual sex, my pace would speed up dramatically to take it over the peak. Now, however, that I don't have anywhere near as much of the foreskin remaining I am having to concentrate on stimulating the glans directly, with plenty of lube (something that was never required previously). As these are still early post-operative days my glans is still extremely sensitive, and even with heavy lubrication can soon begin getting sore from friction (hopefully this will lessen as the glans desensitises over time). As a result, for now I'm having to focus on reaching orgasm as soon as possible before it becomes too painful to continue. I'm looking forward to the day when I can return to using my FleshLight, as the stimulation points should be exactly the same as they used to be before surgery (ie mainly against the coronal ridge), but I think I need to give that the same time that is generally recommended before having actual sex (ie 6 weeks).