after going through all of this i was just wondering if it is possible that my clit could have something wrong, ie. position? after reading on here and elsewhere when penetrating me with me on top or any other postition my husband should be able to get his pubic bone in contact with my clit, this doesnt happen at all! even if we use the cat position (not easy to do) he just doesnt get anywhere near. i have had a look at myself and to be honest i dont really know what the hell im looking for! but what ever it is i cant find it! if i open my lips and lie with a mirror at the top where the loose skin is if i pull that back so its as far as it will go, then there nothing to see. i know its supposed to resemble a little penis but theres nothing there like that,so exactly what should i be able to see? even well hubby and i are getting busy it never feels any different as others have said on here never gets harder or anything. just curious cause i was wondering if having 3 c sections could it have cut off my nerve supply to there ?
most positions won't stimulate the clit at all when it comes to intercourse. I wouldn't really expect it to, the only way it gets stimulated during intercourse is by someone's hand. It's easier to find it by touching than by looking, particularly when you're aroused... it's a little nub, quite soft before arousal, or a little hard with soft skin overtop during arousal. It's also extremely sensitive. Just give yourself some time to relax and explore yourself, with no big expectations aside from learning about your body (even if you don't find your clit then, not a big deal)
Here: http://hon.nucleusinc.com/generateexhibit.php?ID=4508 This is a bit more "women-y" website. http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/fr_index.htm Google is your friend.
sorry but when i hear about women who manage to cum cause they are on top and even then with the help of there fingers it starts to make you wonder id things are in the right place! just one more thing, how much skin should be there cause on me its about the same amount as hubbies foreskin which could explain why i dont have much i any feeling there as its buried so deep under that lot! there isnt actually anything to see at all or feel, i only ask as i was considering using some clit cream but the instructions say to pull back the skin and put it around the glans, well i cant find them!
I can orgasm when I'm on top.. Hell, I can't really handle having my clit touched.. Waaaaay too sensitive. I get off on straight up intercourse.
well i have had a look at those sites and to be honest i dont look anything like those! you can find more skin on me, is that normal
EVERYTHING is normal! We're all different, that's what make the vulva so amazing! Get a hand mirror and look at yourself, explore between the lips and skin.. you'll find everything fine.
that why im asking cause i have done that and no i dont look anything like in the pictures! my clitorul hood looks more like a foreskin with the amount of skin there so once again do you think this could be part of not feeling very much?
Yes, it could be... If it's really bothering you, why not go and see a gyno? See what they say.. Hell, if anything, get a vertical hood piercing. It would help with more stimulation and to push the skin back. I have one, and it's fucking great. Here's a picture to show what it looks like. (NOT MINE!) http://www.sacredskulls.co.uk/sacredart/images/vag01.jpg
Fucking relax. You just have monster pussy lips. Get teeth tattoed on them. And little eyes on your clit hood.
Oh comeon, Toolmaggot is just messing around. I have to say that I laughed when i read that! How can you not find ur clit?
its not that i cant find it, it just doesnt seem to do anything! doesnt change size, doesnt "tingle" nothing!
If you don't like your clit you can always have it surgically relocated/ No word of a lie. Fat chicks and women with it in an oddly buried in place can have it moved, with significant increases in pleasure. I'd have mine relocated to the tip of my nose, but then I'd have to avoid going to places like Iceland.
Well, am I wrong? I just choose to use blunt language instead of being nice or scientific about it. You have a big fleshy ****. You have a clit, It's just lost in folds. Kind of like a wart in Roseanne's asscrack. Not saying there's anything wrong with it. It's just fact, according to the description you provided.
darkangel, im really not sure what to say. if you are really concerned you should go to your doctor. can you have an orgasm at all? like through masterbation?
