New to Bigger Dildos, looking for advice.

Hi,
I'm a top and I have never been penetrated by a man. However, when I masturbate I like to insert a dildo in my butthole. Yesterday I was playing with a bigger one than usual it was difficult but I was successful with no further complications or pain, just a lot of pleasure and relaxation. Later I read online that to make it easier to enter to push like when pooping. Today I tried to do it that way, but now I'm sore, not bleeding but sore after two hours. Please share your experience and best advice.
Thank you in advance!

 

I've never heard of doing this, but I have learned over time to relax my anus while penetrating it. I think relaxation is the key part, many women that I've fucked in the ass have even told me this when it was their turn to peg me. Over time with more and more penetration, I found my ass just opening up for larger, thicker dildos and cocks. I also found that wearing a large butt plug for a number of hours prior to anal sex I could easily take just about any thickness with ease.

 

I totally agree relaxation is the way to do it. That way it just goes naturally.
Some people just give the wrong advice , probably because they were given the wrong advice first. I'm learning to better listen to my body.
Thank you for the advice

 

I have been analy masturbating many time a week for decades. As everyone else stated, relaxation is the key and lot of lube. I have a series of dildos that get progressively larger. I start with one that is 1.5 inches in diameter and move up for there. Time and patients!!