I just started pegging my husband with a strap on recently and last night, he finally relaxed enough that I was able to make him cum. He moaned like I’ve never heard before. He said it was intense and powerful but the orgasm didn’t last very long. How do I get him to cum harder and longer? I know he didn’t experience the full body prostate orgasm I have heard so much about. I want to give him that! Any advice??
Prostate orgasms are harder to trigger than people may think. I've had a couple but have tried a lot. The BEST one was done by a woman. Very professional. Gloves and all. But she knew exactly where that little spot was. It was intense and overwhelming but it didn't come with a rock hard erection. For me, it was more of a burning feeling and then a huge release. That release was more of a feeling than it was of ejaculation. My actual production wasn't that much. She didn't have much clean up to do. So, if a prostate orgasm is what you're after I don't know if pegging is the best way to do it. You may be better off doing it with a wand or with your fingers. My former FWB would combine a slow blowjob with a couple of fingers and she'd usually find that spot now and again but my orgasm and release was really more from her oral skills. Of I were getting pegged, I'd want the dildo in my ass to be more slim than thick (not that I don't like the stretch just like a woman does but because slimmer has a better chance of hitting that spot) and I think I'd want my cock to be stimulated too. Either from a mouth (third person obviously) or by hand. I would opt to be on my back with my legs apart while getting fucked so you could stroke my cock as you did me. I could play with you and tell you when that spot was being hit and hopefully you could keep fucking me right there while tugging me off. I know it's harder the peg your man if he's on his back as opposed to him bending over something or getting it doggy style but that's how I would want to take it. Oh, if he's a sub, he may only want to take it from behind. Just saying.
well, what you say makes sense bc the strap on we got had two size dildos and we had been using the bigger one bc the other looked so short and skinny. But this last time, we used the skinny one and that’s what made him finally cum. He had never come close to orgasm before that. He has made me stop before bc he says he felt a burning sensation but it wasn’t painful but not very pleasurable and bc he wasn’t super hard, he made me stop bc he said it didn’t feel like it was a building up up to an orgasm. Should I tell him I need to keep going thru the weird burning sensation bc something good may be on the other side?? Lol. Also, we do it with him on his back. He doesn’t want to do it any other way. I’m the submissive one in our marriage. But I have asked for years to peg him bc he loves when I finger him while sucking his dick. He finally gave in to me and so I really want him to experience an amazing anal orgasm. For me, anal gives me the best orgasms.
yes, let me find the one I got and I’ll pm it to you. It’s very comfortable for me to wear and we have not had any problems with it.
Well if you're dominant and he's sub (at least for the session), then put him on his back. He'll prefer than and you'll be turned on. Go slow when it burns. It's more about the location that the thrusting. Yes, I know you really want to fuck him but if he feels a little warm in there, find that spot and fuck him deep and slow. I also know you can't lean over to suck him which would be ideal so give him a nice, warm fist and lube it up with whatever works for you two. If you pull his cock straight up while you're stroking him, you can watch yourself fuck his ass which you will like. Your hand will let you know how he's doing. Don't expect him to get rock hard like a blowjob or when he fucks you in either bottom hole. A man always has mixed feelings down there while he's taking it in his backside but...and this is important...the orgasm from a good ass fuck is like a double orgasm. It's from deep within coupled with his balls emptying out. He may be totally exhausted after. Even more than us guys usually are after we release. If he can remember the spot where he felt good while you're fucking him with the strapon, play again while sucking him another night and try to get your fingers in there. Once your find and feel that special spot, it'll help you when you strap a long one on, put him on his back and spread his legs. The burn doesn't last get worse but he'll feel it as his prostate orgasm starts. I would go slow and steady as you do his ass and enjoy watching him take it. Most girls are soaked when they unstrap so you'll have to figure out what to do with you after he's been done with. Let us know...
It takes some time and practice. I'm trying to learn myself. Because it's through the back door, it takes some getting used to
