reason for bi

Discussion in 'Bi Sex Discussions' started by topper, Oct 10, 2024.

  1. topper

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    Is there a reason that you jumped to the other side? Were you into guys from the start or was it an aquired taste? With the lack of nookie with the wife, because of physical/medical issues, I gave bi a chance.
     
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  2. KDaddy23

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    After my early introduction to pussy, I got introduced to dick and found both to my liking. Was there a reason? No, not really; some of us are bisexual without a reason; early on, we feel the pull towards boys and girls and we go with it or, like me, you're in the right place at the right time to get your eyes opened to some sexual realities.

    I'm glad that you gave being bisexual a chance and that you find it to your liking.
     
  3. Oldernow

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    I’ve always been curious never acted upon it until the wife closed our sex life off. I figured I’m older why not plus guys are safer then getting into an affair with an another woman. I still love women but Bi-sex is fun
     
  4. GregS

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    I wondered about sex with other guy when I was an early teen but never acted on it. Sorta of like now I wonder what sushi taste like but not enough to try it.

    My wife started playing with my asshole during sex and it felt good, which proceeded to dildos. She told me I needed to try the real thing and I did. I now have sex regularly with my wife and my boyfriend, just not at the same time. The best of both worlds
     
  5. RisingBi

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    Despite my constant failure and heartache over the failure with girls and women throughout my life driving me to guys literally countless times, I now know that I was just born bisexual and my overpowering gay desires are not only totally natural but my truth. Nothing makes me happier than understanding and accepting this.
     
  6. LowHangers

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    For many, many years I repressed my infatuation with other guys cocks having seen so many in showers. My first wife began holding out on sex as I then became curious about sucking another man's cock, it seemed easier to accomplish versus dealing with another woman. Blowjobs are so easily completed as I was finding so many other sexually frustrated married guys to mutually suck cock with. I found myself becoming the obsessed cock sucker that I was wanting my wife to be.
     
  7. Windman

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    Like a few other men I have always had an attraction for sex with men bit didn’t act on it for many years thinking it would just go away. It didn’t. Finally I thought I would give it try and get it out of my system. Well all that did was open a door that doesn’t want to be closed again.
     
  8. Joshualooking2

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    Just stopped kidding my self and accepted who I was attracted too
     
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  9. Cmlovr

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    No reason, It was a natural thing for me. First blowjob I gave, I did it without thinking or hesitation, and I had no qualms about it afterward.
     
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    I always knew i was Bi from my early teens and never did much about it.
     
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  11. topper

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    Its a no hastle fun time
     
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  12. vbiboy

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    I m "guys from the start" :p
     
  13. CaperRick69

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    When i was in college I heard about a couple of guys from back home that met up sometimes watched porn and sucked each other off, neither of them had much "game" with the ladies, so just helped each other out i guess.
    At first I thought "yuck", had never even crossed my mind that guy's might do that with other guys(pretty sheltered lol).
    For some reason, the more time that passed the more I found myself thinking about their arrangement, eventually became obsessed with the idea of giving a bj. I gave my first bj about 8 years after being out of college, which was about 10 years ago. Pretty much always on the hunt for one to suck, and it is mostly unrelated to my sex life with my wife.
     
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  14. Xavier So Curious

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    It has happened over time. Enjoy sex with my wife but crave and fantasize about sucking and getting fucked
     
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  15. Xavier So Curious

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    Nice cock
     
  16. Suburbanray

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    Curiosity and having options?
    I first read about men having sex with men at the very end of HS in a psychology book at the library. That first made me think about it. Before that it was just homophobic jokes others had made, was all I knew. I had learned about fingering myself being pleasurable earlier.
    Seeing a bi MMF video cover at an adult bookstore in college made me realize that you could have sex with a guy and still like sex with a woman!
    It was like a switch was thrown to new possibilities in my brain! Very confusing because of bi erasure, and many men saying they were bi as a transitional step towards being gay. But I never was gay, and never will be.
    Then reading how so many women either were repulsed by or refused to date bi guys or who even experimented, made it not worth the risk. Not even telling a bi girlfriend about my interests and she talked about a coworker pegging her husband. I just didn't know how to handle the discussion?

    Now it's that I will never let another woman ever control my sex life! Especially if she is not actively having sex with me and doesn't want to ever have sex again! The bi option is out there!
    And with PrEP and DoxyPEP, it's safer than it's ever been in decades!
     
  17. PoetOfDarkness

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    my exploration into bi sexuality started when i began reading erotica that featured guy on guy stuff, and to my surprise i found myself getting turned on by it and it just grew from there. what always confused me was that before then, i had no interest in guys. in fact, the thought often repulsed me so i'm not sure what happened there
     
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  19. Julyguybill

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    Even in my early teens I wanted to see naked men and touch them. When guys talked about sex I wondered how sex would be with a guy.I liked to watch body building competitions on TV and would get hard. I really want to meet a body builder and touch him all over.I got married young but always had desires of sex with men. In.my 30s I gave in and began enjoying sucking guys.i have enjoyed sucking guys so much too and will when chances come suck men. I just love to please men by sucking them off
     
  20. amb5734

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    I always wondered what it would be like on the receiving end, seeing how much girls liked it. But, I was perfectly content having sex with female partners. When that dried up, I saw I got a lot of interest from men and went with it. It's been some great sex.
     

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