OK guys and gals. I'm in deep depression so this is a long post! So I'm a 23 guy from Asia and my penis is only 11.5cm long/10.5cm girth. Mine is a bit small among my Asian friends, not to mention white guys. I had 2 Asian girlfriends before and I had no problem satisfying them (even though they were bigger than me, their vagina were really tight :sunny My life problem came when I moved abroad and I started having absolutely no feeling for Asian girls but white girls only. It's very very hard to find White girls hanging out with Asian guys here but for some reason I can attract them very easily. And I'm not a hot guy neither, I'm only 1.7m tall and slim. And I'm not that good-looking to be standout to attract so many white girls. I think the main reason they like me is because I fall into those very very "bad boys" type but I'm also a caring, funny and confident person; and I'm smart (Well I'm anonymous here so I can say it for once :devil. I can learn and do anything excellently and lightning fast while I'm not one of those Asians who spend their whole fucking life in their room studying. I spend very little time studying/working but still manage to be the best and ridiculously fast at uni/work. I major in some creative art fields but can also manage IT/science/philosophy/whatever just as good. But I've never got the gut to actually say I like them. I don't wanna see them disappointed in bed and I'm afraid the relationship would end quickly. I'm now falling deeply in love with a beautiful white girl and she likes me also but this sex tragedy haunt me so much. Especially she's almost as tall as me I don't know what's her reaction seeing my little one. I love and respect woman very much so please be honest to me, will this "White girls/Asian me" thing works? I always hope it's a myth that white girls need a big cock (from my Asian perspective) to orgasm but the reality seems to prove different. Any experience out there? Thanks folks!
Your mental speculation about the size of your penis this will destroy the relationship. That or if you cheat on her.
I hate threads like this that feed idiotic stereotypes. My boyfriend is Asian and I have dated Asians exclusively for the past 4 years. (I am Caucasian) Some have had big penises, some small, some average. Being Asian doesn't automatically dictate the size your penis will grow to. I am VERY happy with my partners member - because he knows what to do with it. If all you can think about is your penis size when dating a girl - regardless of her ethnicity, you are going to bore her. Work on your personality, wit, and modesty (as in downsizing your modesty) and you just might have some luck with a girl, any girl. Forget the penis! PLZ.
Lack of self confidence is more likely to destroy a relationship than penis size. And FYI, I have sampled my fair share of Asians and they have had a nice variety, the smallest penis I encountered was a white guy
Someday, very soon, you'll look back on this post and laugh at how trivial your "problem" is. You are wasting your energy and potential worrying about this. So your penis (4.5 inches by my reckoning) is a bit smaller than average? Every humiliation you imagine as the result of your size is just that - your imagination. I repeat, it has no basis in reality. If your worthiness as a mate (or anything else for that matter) was based exclusively on the size of your junk, we'd all be walking around with our penises hanging out and we'd save a hell of a lot of wasted time getting to know each other. If you find that your size is an issue with this girl you are falling in love with, then your taste in women is flawed. Stop it. Stop wasting your time worrying about meaningless shit that you have no control over. Do something meaningful with your life. Do you want to know what sensible, well-adjusted, healthy, decent women think of men who obsess about the size of their penises? Let me assure you, they don't hold them in high esteem. What do you think got Linda Lee all sweaty over Bruce Lee? His dick, or his talent, his dick, or his supernatural latissimus dorsi and abs, His dick, or the fact that he single handedly shattered the "sick man of Asia" stereotype and became a national hero in China, and a legendary, celebrated, and beloved actor, martial artist and philosopher, who has inspired generations upon generations of people, throughout the world, in their pursuit of excellence? Do you think Bruce Lee was motivated or influenced by the size of his dick? You want to satisfy a woman in bed and in life? Be a decent human being who cares about shit that matters.
As has been mentioned, size is of little importance. It's almost like a girl being embarrassed she won't be able to satisfy a guy because she thinks her breasts are too small.
Sadly, some women actually do believe that. Whether it's because of men (most of whom are idiots) or women (many of whom are bitches) or the medical profession (almost all of whom are interventionist and greedy) I don't know. The obsession with breast size of the West is just as unhealthy as the obsession with dick size everywhere. OP, learn to love the woman, not the breast. And let the woman love you. Work on lasting lomger, or on cunnilingus, or on clitoral stimulation, Hell, dress up as Han Solo and fuck her with a dildo that looks like a lightsabre if that's what gets her off. Get over your dick size, and work on being less of a dick.
Reminds me of a scene in some western movie or some crap. This guy is in a room with a whore and he drops his pants. She looks at his equipment and giggles and says "Who you think your gonna please with that?" He replied "Me, now shut-up!"
dont listen to the stereotypes, a girl is only worth your time if she likes you for who you are and not how big or small you are.
