Soft Cock

Did you ever get with a guy suck him but he doesn’t get hard, but is able to cum ? I was with a guy was sucking him and fingering his ass never got hard but had a huge cum load I swallowed. The cum was nice but I was disappointed about him not getting hard.

 

I think I did, once or maybe twice. Disappointing that nothing I did could get or keep him hard but he came, not "a whole lot" but, yeah, he nutted. I hadn't thought that it was possible to cum without being erect but...

 

I recall a guy I sucked off a couple of times that never got fully hard. His cock was really big, at least ten inches in length and rather thick. Yes, he did cum in my mouth as I continued sucking on him for some time afterwards. He and I were both satisfied but I found it odd that he never got fully hard. When he invited me back a couple weeks later, I'd asked him before getting started if he gets fully hard for his wife. He said he does and said it must be something in my mind keeping it from getting fully hard knowing another guy is sucking on it. That second blowjob last over an hour, he never got beyond semi-hard but did manage to cum in my mouth twice.

 

You might have given him a prostate orgasm with your fingering? That usually gives guys a much bigger than normal cum load.

 

There was a man I sucked who was not able to get hard due to health issues. He did become somewhat more erect, but was still mostly soft. I knew this before hand and it was not an issue. He and I enjoyed the experience and he was able to cum without any problems.

 

If he became fully erect, he might have passed out trying to fill that monster.

 

Yes, back in June I got with a guy I met on a bi site. I didn't want anal and was ok with him having some ED. We were horny and sucked each other a couple of times. I didn't mind. Being only 4 inches semi hard, it was great fun sucking his whole cock and he sure vocalise his enjoyment. The second time I sucked him, he came and it was not as I'd expected, not a long hard jet into the back of my mouth, just a lot of pre come then more, and a pineapple spice taste. I asked him if he came. Yes he did. He doesn't do big loads usually and has lots of pre come as I do. Want to do it again. My first load out of a cock I've sucked. Flaccid didn't matter he sure felt it and busted his nuts which was the point really

 

I sucked a guy off just a few days ago that never got fully hard. Not a big deal, it was obvious that he enjoyed me sucking on him. I, not sure if it was because he was nervous or if it was attributed to his age (64). I plan on meeting him again, we’ll see.

 

It was good for my self esteem when I first explored this to get my frustrated rocks off. With women a soft cock was a bad night and no repeats performance. With the old cock sucker soft or hard didn't matter. I got sucked off expertly, so ironically I had no problem getting and maintaining a rigid boner and I'd come several times in the few hours. His was only 2; inches stiff, and I became a favourite because I sucked him where most wouldn't bother.

 

He was a joy to suck on even though I could only get about 7" of him into my mouth due to how thick his cock was. He liked it when I'd slap his member against my face and against my tongue while sucking on his balls. I'd love to hook up with him again. I do enjoy sucking cock as everyone in this forum knows, and even though he never got fully hard I'd have to say his cock was one of the most enjoyable to suck on besides my regular bud's cock.

 

Yea, I met up with a guy in I'd say his mid 70's a few months ago.
He was at most 4" soft, really seemed to enjoy me sucking on it soft so I kept going. He wanted to suck me, so I let him, thinking "this will get him going" he never got even a little hard, but came a medium sized load after about 10-15 minutes.
I preferred the soft guy hook up over this other time with a guy I met up with at his hotel room. He was maybe 3.5" hard and came in about 15 seconds.....

 

Yeh, for me, soft wouldn't be an issue. So long as he enjoys his cumming. 4 inches hard would probably be my minimum. 7 or 8 better and anything in between would be perfectly OK. That said, I like Stilton and roublechon cheese, not smeg. Lol

 

I'm usually the guy that can't get hard from a BJ.

Sometimes, it's because I've already had an orgasm or because if my ED.

On behalf of all soft summers, we apologize. But, we are always sincerely grateful for your attention.

 

I've been lucky so far I guess. I've only had sex with less than 20 guys but they all gotten hard. With some it took a few minutes of sucking but they got there. My current boyfriend is hard when he walks in the door.
I can see the bulge in his pants.

 

I'd rather suck a guy with ED who can climax than a guy with a stiffy who can't get over the edge no matter how long you stimulate him. Some guys have trouble dropping their inhibitions and openly expressing their lust. This often is caused by being too self-conscious. You have to let your ego go to have an explosive orgasm.

And by the way, men can climax even if they can no longer produce semen. Post-prostatectomy men who are uninhibited sexually can really explode, even without a prostate.

 

The Body Rushes are there. If you throw in a little Anal play, Its a home run.

 

Some men have a hard time cumming from oral sex alone? I'm one of them, and it's hard for me to cum if my cock is actively sucked on either by a woman or man. Though I've consciously never tried cumming in a mans mouth yet. It's been rare for me to cum in a woman's mouth, even when she is wanting it. It's almost like too much stimulation if that makes sense?
It might also be conditioning from early experiences with women who were adamant about never cumming in their mouths!?

 

This is true for a number of men. Luckily all the women that sucked me off have all taken my load in the mouths and swallowed. I'd just let it go as they gulped it down. Once I took my first load and swallowed it, I've always swallowed.

 

Well you know, sometimes the guy getting sucked needs to start thrusting his hips to fuck that mouth. Fucking is what 100,000 years of evolution conditioned us to do for procreation purposes. That approach might get you over the edge during oral sex, but you do need to feel confident that your partner is game for that.

I know I'm game for it with male partners that I trust, and I've had both male and female partners who were game for it when I was the top. The receiver uses one hand to regulate the depth of the thrusts, and then just encourages the top drop all his inhibitions and go for it. That same stroking hand used as a depth gauge can also be used guide his cock out of the receiver's mouth if swallowing is not desired.

Some guy's just have to let loose to get off on oral sex. My best oral sex experiences were basically getting naked and mouth fucking. One time I had a simultaneous climax with a guy while both of us were on our sides in 69 position. That was awesome. We really let go, and then just laid there in that position panting for several minutes after we got off.

I had one male lover who could stay hard forever, but could not climax. He just closed his eyes and went into a trance while I did all the work. To complicate things, he was genital-centric, and touching him anywhere else was off limits. He had a very difficult time letting loose, so he tended to be anorgasmic. I sucked and bobbed and cradled his cock and balls for so long, but he could not get to that point of no return. I tried to loosen him up a bit by masturbating to completion in front of him, but he remained somewhat inhibited and could not cum in my presence. He had to be by himself. It was a pity, because he was both nice and disease free. Maybe it has something to do with the way he was raised. I hope he gets over it.

 

I will remember your idea of trying to thrust a little bit the next time I get the chance of being sucked! Who knows when that will be
In the past with women, I sometimes would be so hard, I had the same muscle sensations as when I would have to pee with a hardon in the mornings, and that might be holding me back?
With the men who have sucked me, the first was done stealthily in a bookstore gloryhole, & I did almost cum. But I pulled out thinking not to get a mess on his hands as I had just asked him for a handjob only. With the other two guys, years later, I purposely held back, still nervous on what my bi aspects meant? Maybe I thought if I didn't cum in their mouths, I'd be less gay? I now know I was just confused, and being bi is it's own thing, doesn't make me gay, and to embrace it more! Like the Seinfeld quip "Not that there's anything wrong with it" (being gay), it's just not who I am or how I'm wired, as I definitely want women.
If only society would be more accepting of bisexuality as an option for men, far more men would embrace their bisexual interests and desires?!