SPH (small penis humilation)

For those who have the fetish, those that never heard of it or those that dont really understand it.
I firstly want to say that to have the fetish you dont necessarily have to have a particularily small penis. It is probably a bit easier to get sph kicks if you actually have a tiny cock and mine is decidedly tiny.
Often when I post things in this or other similar forums or when it comes up in the flesh and blood world about my small size and the humilation aspect I get reactions that try to assuage the humiliation factor. They mean well but dont understand I am actually am more than ok about having a tiny cock. This is due to my fetish. I even fantasize about it being even tinier and love it if some girl sees my baby sized penis when I have suffered shrinkage. It is massively arousing when a female sees my tiny member compared to another guys much bigger dick.
The best was when I was in a cuckold relationship for a couple of years and I was actually present while other guys fucked my girlfriend most of the time.
I have asked a number of my girlfriends over the years about how I compared to their exes and some candidly confessed that I was much smaller but also said size didnt matter. When I made it clear to them that I was fine with any actual comparisons with me and the other guys they had been with some did admit that bigger was better but prowess was best. They tend to compliment me one way or another with my foreplay skills but some admitted that my penis didnt really rock their boat. Before sph I never quizzed them about such things but in most cases it waspretty obvious they were left a bit unsatisfied. I would still like to get them off at least by foreplay or afterplay because it feels a tad selfish I cum but they dont but I do get a secondary thrill out of my tiny cock being unsatisfactory for their needs - especially if they tell me so.
I recall the reaction by one girl ( who knew nothing about sph or that I had the fetish) She told me my cock was way too small for her as she had only been with much bigger guys before. She saw my cock get very hard while she confessed this and found it extremely odd. I tried to explain the fetish but she didnt really get it.

 

One of my friends sometimes sees a man with a very small cock and he gets off by showing it off. She doesn't fuck him but she enjoys going down on him to his finish. She does say, however, that even sucking him off leaves her not satisfied and she has to suck a bigger one after to make her feel "normal" about it. He loves it when she takes a pic of his little one and shares it. I have one somewhere I think.

 

I think there is a lot of Big Penis Envy. We had a friend who was very well endowed. The thing was he was often referred to as hung like a horse and donkey dick, and he hated it but, he was still pretty proud of it. and never minded showing it off. I know he liked hearing women tell him; he was the biggest they ever had.

 

I can’t say I have a SPH fetish, however I definitely have the proper equipment for it. In grade school I had a group of older girls strip me and all laughed as they ran off with my clothes and it was definitely humiliating. It gave me a life long complex more than a hard on.

I have a rather unique “grower” as if I’ m aroused, I am very much normal size and never struggled to satisfy a partner in fact the opposite. But if cold or nervous it shrivels up to an albino little prune atop a tight little nut sack.

So when stripping off at a nude beach I generally get looks for all the wrong reasons. There have been smirks and giggles but I just hope at some point in the day the warm sunshine will have Willy come out of hiding.
However strange it seems, it was going to nude beaches that forced me to overcome my fear of ridicule. But I am sure I have made it onto more than one iPhone album for further review and laughter. But life goes on.

 

In high school I was pantsed in front of a group of female cheerleaders. ( luckily way before the existance of mobile phones so no pics - however it became common knowledge in the gossip circles that I had a very tiny penis)
I managed to get a gf but not one that went to my school. It was a tough year in HS and I was a pantsing target and suffered a few times more including once at a public pool right in front of a group of girls from my neighbourhood.

 

For men on the small side, how would you go about telling your girlfriend or wife you wanted her to be with a bigger penis? And what if it pissed her off, and she never wanted to see you again. I guess you would have to go about it slowly.

 

My experience was decades before iPhones thank the Lord, but I was called Little Willy for a year or two.
the phones were more recent day on beaches that I suspect I was captured.

Her Being with a bigger Dick: Well in my case, that almost certainly has happened already not many 50 plus virgins around.
Saying I want to watch her with a guy with a bigger dick "really put it to her" that can be a touchy ask for sure....

suggestion: Try and just make a scenario where you have a chance to express the amazement of the size of some guys tool - then pose the question have you ever ? or would you ever like to ?? etc see her reaction and roll with it or back away slowly depending on the response.
My experience; those women that have had a monster dick have most often not really enjoyed it and found it hurt like hell, so there are limits to just how much bigger you want her to go.

My current partner has had a few opportunities that have come very close and a couple of those guys had some substantial gains on me. If you fish around you will likely find my previous posts. So far things have some how been interrupted as we headed in that direction, but the hope of getting back there again still lingers but Menopause plays evil games with our sex lives... if you aren't there yet - get what ya can for yourself, let MR. Big Dick fend for himself... haha

 

The first girlfriend with whom a sph/cuck relationship blossomed with came about after she confessed to cheating. We had an otherwise solid relationship but she was not satisfied sexwise. We got past her unfaithfullness as my sph fetish blossomed after she told me she didnt play away for anything other than sex kick. She said my penis was always too small for her and had formerly been with much bigger guys. This actually turned me on and within a few months we were in a mutually beneficial cuck relationship with a huge dollop of sph.
My most recent gf and I were hooked up for over 2 years but we started off in a semi open sph/ cuck thing. She already knew I has a tiny cock and a previous history and that meant I would be into such a thing. She seldom had long relationships because she was into more open sex life and had a very insatiable lust for sex kicks.
I think I got very lucky with both women but it is going to be much trickier to duplicate. For one meeting someone that is going to be responsive to it in the first place is a very long shot. Hi! I wanna get it on with you but I have a tiny penis and an sph fetish and want to get into a sex life based on that would not be a good pick up line and if I find someone or they find me and we want to start up a relationship the sex bit usually wont come into it until a bit of dating etc goes on. Then perhaps I could judge whether any of that comes into it at all. Shot in the dark really.

 

My female kink buddy who lives in Canada is coming to the UK this summer.
She has told me she is considering aiding and abetting a long held sph fantasy I have had. I have never sucked a cock but for the possible sph kick I have thought often about actually testing the water provided there is a female to watch me do it.
I love the submissive aspect of sucking a guy's much larger penis while being voyed by woman. My kink buddy knows all about my sph thing and has actually seen my tiny penis but thinking of her looking on as I submit to the 'superior' man is extremely enticing and she seems amenable to help me fulfill this fantasy. ( it would be great if he fucks her too but that hasnt been mentioned by me. )
I am still very hetero for the most part so even without the sph thing I would love to see her naked - as for the sph kick from that I got into a cuck lifestyle with my former girlfriend based on it - who knows perhaps I could fuck her too but this is speculating way ahead of something that is only in its early consideration stages.

 

Hope all works out well. Even though I was better than average in size. I had several girlfriends and fuck buddies, who were interested in trying a bigger dick. And I had a male friend who was more than witting to help out.