Wasn't sure what to call it but I'll go with stealth masturbation. Does anyone do this where they masturbate in bed right next to their sleeping partner without them knowing? (Not necessarily over them, but to porn or anything). I sometimes do (just have), and have a couple different techniques. I'm uncut so it's usually done in a way of going slowly and mainly using pressure on the tip so the foreskin moves over the head with a lot of pressure and eventually it can get me there.
I have done it several times, my wife woke up one time but I just pulled the covers up so she thought I just moved too hard. Then when she fell back asleep I pulled it out again and finished. I always wanted to put my hard cock in her hand and thrust it to see if she would wake up and finish me off but never took the opportunity.
Mine doesn't either, but she'd probably be a bit like "for gods sake" if I was doing it right next to her in bed when she was sleeping. I sometimes go downstairs if I want to properly. It's usually just to help getting to sleep if I can't sleep
Done it many times but my wife isn't bothered unless I wake her up. We masturbate together frequently so it's no surprise to her
I have tried to masturbate with her asleep but have never been able to finish. Funny thing is she does not mind me masturbating at all but I just don’t want to wake her. I have on occasion when really horny gone out to the living room and finished the job.
If my wife knew and didn’t mind I would have no problem doing it next to her and would hope she would wake up while I was doing it and maybe lend a hand or something else.
My wife doesn't understand my desire/need for masturbation, so I usually do it as far away from her as possible.
Sorry to hear your wife doesn’t approve. My first wife was very much like your wife my new wife encourages me to masturbate whenever I feel the need.
I've now realized the mistakes that I made when selecting a wife. There are a few changes that I've had to make that I didn't plan for. A) I was a nudist when my wife and I met. When we were at my place, I was nude. She didn't join me often, but didn't have a problem with it. Then, THREE years later she broke down and confessed that she hated it. So, I should have gotten her agreement, in writing, that she wouldn't make an issue of it. B) I masturbated a lot as a single guy, but assumed that I wouldn't NEED to once I was married. DUMB. I wish a buddy would have warned me. Again, I would have gotten her agreement, in writing, that it would be OK to continue masturbating. lol I guess people make better choices the second time around. You deserve to live the life that you want to live.
I agree, my first wife and I still get along but my second wife was definitely more fun in and out of the bedroom
Your wife is a lot like my first wife. When I first came out of the closet as a nudist my wife threaded divorce after 44 years, long story short I caved and only went to nudist resorts by myself behind her back. Truth is not very proud of the fact that I did but I did. Then fast forward two years and I finally had enough told her that I saw no harm in visiting nudist resort but she did and labeled me as a pervert. We divorced and two years after that I meet the most wonderful lady I could possibly hope for. She was not a nudist but agreed that I could enjoy myself as long as no other women were envoluted. Less than six months she decided to join me at the nudist resorts not because she enjoyed it (she is really not comfortable because of her weight) but because I am her husband and she fully supported me. As for sex and masturbation she is 180 degrees different from my first wife.
I loved doing it but I’d wake him up when I was about to cum and he’d just roll over and go to sleep so I’d watch women fingering themselves on Pornhub
I’d love to be confident enough to go to a nude resort but I’m stuck in this gross body and I know I’d be kicked out as I’d be constantly hard
I do it occasionally. I'm in the group who's wife does not approve of masturbation. She thinks it steals from her somehow. Good thing is she's usually up for sex anytime. She really enjoys it, and sometimes initiates. Anyway, I still need to self pleasure sometimes, and when I'm horny and she's sleeping, I start by playing with my nipples, which gets me hard and can sometimes get me "almost" there. I usually have a sock nearby that I can unload in and discreetly add to the laundry.
I've done this many times. My wife is perfectly ok with this - I've masturbated in front of her many times and when I'm horny she'll almost always let me fuck her anyways, but just the thought of pleasuring myself next to her, clandestinely, while she's asleep and unaware, is hawt. I always sleep naked and generally I'll get an erection and then I'll start massaging the little j-spot on the bottom of my dick. At that point I'll be rock-hard, and I'll try to get some lube on my hand, which I usually keep next to the bed on a nightstand. What's really hot is trying to orgasm while not moving at all - just gently rubbing that spot on my dick and running my fingers up and down my shaft, and squeezing my head a bit. I'll be very discretely massaging my dick and "willing" it to happen - pushing and flexing really hard with my PC muscles and my asshole. Sometimes I can't and I just wind up having to go to sleep with blue-balls, but other times I just erupt and cum in the sheets and get the most amazing and relaxing release.
