i think its cool but i dated someone with one, and let me tell you, cunninlingus was no better than any other guy. most guys that have a tongue ring love going down on a woman, so its helpful in that way to gauge who likes to muff dive. guys who wont do it arent worth your time :>
Explain? You say it was no better, but was it the guy that made the difference or was he good (for you) and the tongue piercing did nothing for you? I am seriously thinking about having mine done
I dated a guy with one, and he was so good with his that he just had to run it along his teeth to make me shiver in anticipation. In my experience it depends on the guy, and the girl, in question with something like that.
Personally, i dont not think that tounge rings make any kind of difference in your sexual performance. Either a guy can use his tounge or he cant, no piece of metal is gonna make it better. I used to date a guy that had his tounge split and have venom piercings to go along with it. The fact that he could pinch my clit with his tounge was fuckin sick, but the novelty wore off quickly.
I got my tongue pierced maybe 10 years ago and wore it for a few years. It seems like it was more of a fashion accessory than a device for "her" pleasure. I was with a girl once who had two tongue piercings and can say that it just felt like metal pressing against me. I still put mine in every once in a while, just for the street cred with the punk rockers, lol... but I wouldn't suggest getting one just for the purpose of someone elses pleasure. But hey, if they think it is hot or whatever, indulge their fantasies!
I've gotta say that while it does tend to be an attractant to girls who love a guy going down on them (my personal favorite activity, maybe even above sex) It's affect is minimal, you're either good at it or you're not and no barbell is going to change that. (however, i dont care what skill level you're at, my tiggler tongue ring was possibly the best investment EVER!)
My boyfriend has a tongue ring...and he's amazing at oral....but not because he has a tongue ring. The tongue ring is just sort of a novelty...he's just THAT good at oral. *shrugs* I love his tongue ring on him...but it doesn't fit everyone.
Ok personally its hot on a guy and a girl...but it really depends on the person if it makes oral sex better. I've been with a guy that had his done and he was great when he went down anyway it just made it even better with the tongue ring, he could just show it to me and I'd go crazy but I've also been with a guy that had one but he was crappy and the metal didn't make a difference. It's the same thing with a girl, if she knows how to use it then that's great but if not it won't make a difference. But don't get it just because you want to make someone feel good, it should be for you. I've had mine done since I was 17 and it was for me...the oral part is just extra.
my boyfriend has one...haha he's so shy though he probably wouldnt go down on me with his though...I have a nasty habit of when we are kissing to kinda chew on it? yeah grosss maybe but it's quite funny.
I think it's really sexy on dudes... I've never been with a guy with one, but I've been with a girl with one and it was SWEET during oral sex all the same...
Gaaaawd. I never appreciated the tongue piercing UNTIL I started dating someone who has one. If I catch a glimpse of his tongue piercing (if he's playing with it, or even just YAWNING) I get all hot and bothered. I can't even think about this, without feeling shivers up my spine ^__^
i have mine done.my ex absolutely hated it except when munching.she couldnt get off without it.never had a girl with one though.
I completely agree. If he can use his tongue then it really doesnt matter if he has a tongue ring or not. If he cant use his tongue, then it really doesnt matter if hes got a tongue ring or not. I just wanted to add that I think its a bit different when a female has oral piercings. The slick metal sliding up and down/around the different parts of a mans anatomy does make a difference, at least in my experience (with the same guy, before and after my oral piercing). I have two tongue piercings (check the piercing and tattoo picture thread), vertically and a vertical labret so theres a stud right in the middle of my lip and my significant other says that kissing as well as oral feels better since ive had the oral piercings...BUT...for the sake of debate.... I have had the tongue rings for like, two years...and the vert labret for a couple of months and he noted a BIGGER positive difference after the vert labret so it could just be that in the 4 years weve been together ive just gotten better at giving blowjobs lmfao. But, yeah, I do think that it makes a difference for males when females have oral piercings.
i've had mine for over 3 years now i think, and so far havent had any complaints lol, but if anyone would like to experience a kiss or something more then let me know , but yeah i love my tongue piercing, cant imagine not having one, it feels so natural
my advice to you, mojo...within one hour after you have it done, make sure you get yourself a nice big cup of ice and start sucking on ice all day. It will help keep the swelling down to a minimum. I did that when I got mine done and my tongue barely swelled at all.