Haven’t been active here as much since I’m now dating a really nice guy I met through indoor climbing club. We have some common interests other than climbing so that’s great. I’m trying to not get too excited about it since I don’t want a huge let down if it doesn’t work out. But a plus is it seems to be more than just sex ( hehe yep I’m no longer a virgin ;-) but more on that later). He’s 6 years older than me at 61yo and it seems to be going well so far. We’re both still working so not a lot of time together but enough to get to know each other better apart from the climbing. I’ll keep you updated!
This is VERY good news, my friend! I certainly hope that all will work out for you! You are VERY wise to take things slowly.....that is always the BEST way, in a situation such as this. PLEASE keep us posted....BEST of luck to you! "Live long and prosper"
Thanks GrayGuy57. We’ve been doing several non-sexual things together when we get a chance. When I get some time I’ll write about the sex in the appropriate section. That part has been great too!
Again, I certainly hope all will go as you wish, and only good times prevail! Keep us posted! "Live long and prosper"
I'm not sure why it is such a challenge for us older guys to meet Mr. Right. I'll take Mr. Good Enough, for that matter... Yes, sex is a wonderful part of our existence and certainly is my favorite way to exercise and stretch my body - but it is the care and companionship of another human that I long for. I want someone to think of me first when the weekend is coming and he wants someone to do something with - and yes, other than just sex. Dinner first would be a nice lead-up to going back to his place for a drink... lol... I hope it does well for you @Jcinalco
You are so very correct; it is MORE than just the SEX, it is also about the COMPANIONSHIP....the EMOTIONAL bonding between two men that REALLY makes things "click". In my 66 years of celibacy, I have never even come within a million miles of "Mr. Good Enough"........oh, well. When another guy wants to spend "quality time" with YOU.....and ONLY you; that, indeed, speaks many volumes....what a WONDERFUL feeling that has to be! The needs of gay and bio men are no different than those of straight men; sure, we want the SEX, but also, we not only WANT....but NEED that solid EMOTIONAL "connection" to REALLY make things "click". Sure hope that at least "Mr. Good Enough" comes your way; I think he'll be QUITE happy that he got to meet you! "Live long and prosper"
Well to update without the details, that relationship is over. Single again. But it’s all good. I have a better idea of who I am and what I want. I’m still sexually attracted to women but for a relationship and great sex I want a man.
Sorry to hear that relationship is over; however, I do feel that you are all the more wiser, because of it. Just know,my friend, I am wishing you much luck in FINALLY finding the man you want for the m/m relationship you seek; just stay strong and optimistic!
