Visible bulge offensive?

First off, hey everyone! I found this site a while ago and enjoy this forum, now I guess it's time to ask a question........

Are you offended by seeing a guys bulge in his pants? I don't mean an erection or crazy tight pants. I wear comfortable jeans and almost always have a visible package. Sometimes I am very selfconscious about it and try to convience myself that it is a natural part of my body so no big deal. Any thoughts?

Thanks

MountainDog

 

Mountain Dog whats funny is, if I put myself in your shoes I can come to understand how u might think to urself sometimes, thats its extremely obvious to everybody and that its vulgar and wrong. But thats only thinking to hard about it, like if u were stoned.
Trust me, on behalf of everybody's whose like me; carry it with pride, its your weapon! Its like big tits on a girl; its perfectly fine for her to be bulging out, thats her privilage, but where any guilt or shame comes into it is on the other person whos responsibility is not to stare and to do the best they can to look like their not thinking about them.
In our socially paranoid societies, for a woman to focus her vision on a guy's crutch for I second, she would feel somewhat perverted and paranoid that others observed her perversion.
You rule, as u are able to prove to absolutey everybody and anybody your manly toughness without lifting a finger. Woman want to have sex with u, before they even hear u speak. Men respect u before they even know how u can fight

 

Thanks Spinelli - I often thought of it as no more than seeing a womans breasts- although, you may get a little heat here for saying women want to have sex just because they see a bulge

Thanks again,
MountainDog

 

And some men may want to have sex as well, I was thinking about why you needed to ask this question on a forum, then thought, you can hardly appoach people ask them to look and ask them if they find it offensive.
or maybe you could it would be interesting what people might say.

just joking

S

 

I think guys always dwell on these things. I know I would be nervous going to my high school classes after lunch, cuz me and my gf would always make out during lunch, so I always had kind of a bulge going on.

 

TAKE OUT THE SOCK!!!!! (just kidding)

Don't worry about it -- why do you care if somebody thinks you have a big package? Let the girls talk and the other guys be jealous.



....oh, and welcome

 

I'm well endowed and slim at the same time. Most of the time, my bulge is visible, though I don't show off.

I love it when a more confident lady, say in her 30's, looks at my crotch and then looks at me and smiles. You KNOW what she is smiling about. I think it is a turn-on for some women, particularly confident women. Just like nice breasts or a curvy behind is a turn on for us men.

 

~*oh how i love the bulge... maybe i'm just one of those kind of wierdos, but tighter pants showin' a little somthin' somthin' on the right kind of guy really make me take a second and third look ~ of course thats on MY guy but... ~ the bulge is the bulge what can you do? go with it babeeeee*~

 

Mountain Dog, You should be ASHAMED of yourself! How dare you display your manly prowess to the people who want to look, making the women have dirty thoughts.

You should wear long sweaters all the time like a beautiFULL blond with a huge rack should wear large oversized tops.

When a person sees another person and is attracted to them, They are not saying in thier mind "oh what a nice person, he/she must have good values"
The women say "that guy has the goods" just like us men say "that girl has ample qualities!" . If anything you should wear boxers and tighter pants!

I say display your weapon with "pride"!

 

I think it's sexy as hell! Wear it with pride brother, I'd probably be looking if I saw you.

 

No it isn't offensive and when you get home
you can make a nice cucumber salad.

 

Wow - I had no idea there would be such positive responces! I feel liberated - I like my bulge - I'm proud of my bulge

Thanks folks,

MountainDog

 

May this be the BIGGEST problem you ever have in your life my brother.....
I'm sure there are lots of men who would like to have this problem..

teepi

 

why be ashamed? i can tell you with full confidence that one of my best guy friends picks out pants that make it look like he HAS a bulge. You have one natrually. Lets be honest- just like guys check out girls breasts or bum, girls (look, youll notice) see a cute guy and naturally the eyes do a quick peak at the crotch. Its just natural. I never even noticed i did it until i noticed my girlfriends doing it and payed attention to myself. But back to the point- so its a good thing. You should be proud. It should give you confidence. People will either not care or be intrigued by what they see.


BE PROUD OF YOUR PACKAGE!!

 

Right on bro! I have felt the same way sometimes as I have often found myself trying to hide my package. It is sometimes embarrasing, but i havecome to the point where i am comfortable with myself and my body. I have actually become quite the adcocate of nudity..beaches, resorts, gatherings, etc. good to hear there are more out there like i....

peace and love
adam

"if you cant be with the one you love, love the one you're with."

 

Man....sure wish I had asked this earlier, seems like such a waste of time worrying about such a little thing now-

Thanks for the insight,

MD

 

Ok, just got to get my bit in:

SHOW IT OFF!!!

I don't consider it the least offensive, though sometimes the guy himself may not be a turn on for me. Honestly, I wish more men would show off a little more

 

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My fwb and fb love looking at a crotch and estimating cock size. They have loads of experience and are generally pretty accurate.

 

There is only one thing better than seeing a bulge in a man's pants and that is ................when the beautiful thing bursts out and strikes me down !!!!