I was chatting with my other half and it got me wondering what term do you and your partner use for an erection? Me and my other half use the term hard-on, and I have heard my adult stepdaughter refer to it as a stuffy.
She doesn't like when I use the term "cock".... 'oh, it's kind of vulgar...' but from time to time she will use the word dick.... Boner or hard-on are the usual terms for me, but I don't think she specifically uses an erection term...it's usually 'put your dick in' or 'do you want me to suck your dick...' We probably need to work on that.
I dont refer to it publically as such but since my erect penis is so small I go back to my youth when it wasnt uncommon to call cocks 'dinks' . Cock sounds too manly for my boysized member.
My wife and I don't usually have a term for an erection, although I think we have said "hard-on" or "hard". No matter the size we both typically say "cock", rarely "dick" and occasionally "penis".