i was just wondering everytime i'm with my bf he touches me all over the place most of the time getting in the underwear,but i dont know where to touch him so he would like it? anyone any suggestions? :bigear: i tried getting down in his underwear but i wasnt sure that would really work.
It would. People have other erogenous zones aside from in their pants, I like to be whispered dirty and romantic things while she grasps my hair.
Well, keep in mind that every guy is different, and has varying intensity of erogenous zones. Typical ones include ears, neck, nipples, inner thighs, wrists, inner elbows and behind the knees. For some, feet, backs, nape (back of the neck, right below where the hair ends, oh god that's definitely a good spot on me phew). Some people like soft, feathery touches. Some like harder touches (ie biting, ahaha, bite the back of my neck and, well, yeah). Some like wet touches (ie tongue) some like dry (hands only). Best bet is really to ask him what turns him on.
The penis, yes, but besides that I really like having my head touched. I don't know if that's common (probably not), but to me both touching a girl's head and having mine touched is very intimate. After all, the head is where you have all your important parts (brain, eyes, ears, mouth) and it's the first thing you naturally go to protect when you're in danger ("duck & cover" anyone?), so that's part of the reason why I think head-touching is quite hot. I especially like to nuzzle my head against hers. Mmm.
squeeze his ass. that always makes a person feel sexy. but there is also the advice that if you dont know yet what to do, then wait until you do.
just feel it out... listen for increased breathing.. or maybe a slight moan... just gotta feel these things out... for me personally my whole body is one big erogenous zone.. but then again im a scorpio
try lots of whispers stroking with your fingertips and light kissing perhaps. of corse you could always ask him what turns him on the most, go on, have a go!
har har. i heard that guys like having their tummy rubbed / stroked. and i tried it and it worked with one guy...but not really with another. so who nose.
When I'm with a man that I'm really interested in, I treat him like I want to be treated.. If I want to stroke his face/rub his hair then I do so.. If I want to kiss him softly, stroke his stomach, suck and lick his ear/neck then I help myself to it.. Being myself and just showing him that I want him has always worked for me. My last, and soon to be, partner gets turned on when I'm just sitting beside him. It really doesn't take much to get him going but I still like feeling him.. We kiss so amazing together.. We like to slowly brush each others lips together just to feel them.. It's really wonderful.
There are the obvious places like the genitals, the neck, etc., but one person mentioned "squeezing his ass." I'm personally a huge fan of this one. Don't ask why, but there's just something about being made to feel you have a nice man ass: It's something extremely arousing, and extremely comforting. Something little and enticing like a little ass squeeze can be very cute, very slutty, very platonic or very sexual. My suggestion is to act very feminine and passive, and eventually surprise him by switching the roles: And the key to this is his ass. Grab him by his ass, hold him down and kiss him passionately. Don't just keep your passion to yourself: assert it on him, and tell him he has a cute ass, lol.
My advice is -- ask him where he likes to be touched. One place that all guys like to be touched is lightly on the underside of the penis in the inverted "V" near the glans or head, with your finger or tongue. That is the most sensitive area of the penis, along with the coronal ridge of the glans. But each guy is different, and you may find that he likes to have your tongue on his ear lobes, or his testicles caressed, or his nipples sucked. If you don't want to ask him, try all of them until he responds with a smile and a sigh.