Who is the Instigator when it comes to sex? I would say that I am the horny one always looking to fool around now, but my wife has always been the adventurous one ,with her Kinky femdom attitude. I wouldn't have enjoyed many different pleasures if she wasn't the Instigator.
Some days I am some days she is. When I told her I was bi without missing a beat she pulled out a big dildo I did not know she had lol
For some reason, I've always been the instigator with both women and men. With the only two girlfriends I ever had, I was always the instigator, especially with my first girlfriend, who hated sex (in 5 years we only had sex 25 times), and thought oral sex both giving and receiving was "icky" and in those 25 times rarely wanted us to do it. In bathhouses with guys, a place filled especially with tons of shy bi guys, I often had to be the guy in a filled sauna to make the first move on a guy, eventually sucking his cock, which broke the ice for everyone else. With guys in each other's homes I've also been the guy that had to start things rolling when it was our first time together. I guess my horniness is very powerful, and I'm a very sexual being.
