Why are big areolas considered unattractive?

I'm just asking why. I'm not mad and I won't judge! haha

Be honest please!

A female on another site told me it's because guys like young, youthful girls and with age and child bearing comes bigger areolas, sagging, stretch marks etc. So big areolas are normally a sign of aging and they are not youthful.

I want male opinions on this since I like guys.
So guys, why are the considered less attractive or unattractive?

 

Boobies are boobies in my eyes

 

It really depends on the size and shape of the breast itself. Large areolas can be a turn on on small to medium-size breasts.

 

Who the fuck keeps spreading these blasphemous lies about Lady-bit's?!?

Seriously, it's fucking them all up in the head for Christ sake!

 

it's just opinions. most guys dislike big ones and that's ok. I just wanted to know why. I get why smaller ones are hot and cute though, so it's not to be mean or rude that I ask this.

 

I've never met a guy who had any sort of strong areola size preference,like ever.Wtf? it's pretty much always "yay tits" isn't it?

I HAVE met women (and maybe a man or two) who have voiced a slight preference, but they said either too small or too big, and fuck if I know where there "too" really fit in usage- or avg size of the public . I think for the most part it's still all "YAY BOOBS" and the nip is just an after thought, unless it is deformed in some way..

 

look, big areolas ARENT ugly

please stop giving a shit about what men on the internet you wont even meet say, remember as you just said

some guys like it, some dont, its not a problem, trust me

i love boobs

 

Are they?

 

If it's true, it likely stems from grade school playground nonsense and is furthered by those who've matured little from that point.

 

If i come on here and ask for opinions I'm suppose to believe big areolas aren't ugly right?
But everything I have ever been told on other forums, multiple forums is that they are ugly or turnoffs.

Why would I not take the opinions I've always been told any less seriously than the ones on here?

 

sure, yeah

but if youre gonna ignore the opinions about boobs here, youre gonna have to swear youre also gonna ignore them at the other forums ok?

 

Look.... the only way they could be seen as ugly or a turn off is if they were bigger than the boobs. That would be a little weird. If that's not the case, enjoy what you got.

 

I don't think hearing it from guys on 2 or 3 other forums is the same as hearing the opposite from 1 forum

 

Who the fuck is telling you this? Seriously, this is getting really old.

Wasn't that your thread, about how your 2 inch nipples are huge and ugly and deformed and require surgery?

My baby-momma has small properly shaped tits. She's under 25. 1 inch all the way around the nipple makes hers more than 2 across. She's not deformed, and it hasn't discouraged me (or others) from finding her attractive. They look perfectly proportioned, it would look pretty silly if they got any smaller. And I've played with some with tits sporting considerably larger areolas that looked just fine.

Seriously, what is your problem? YOU seem to be the one spreading this damaging, self-esteem harming lie, not others, at this point....

 

Actually that speaks to the freak in me now that you've put the image in my head for the first time. Thanks for that. :cheers2: Just imagine the whole tit getting firm and perky like the nipple??

Hmmm, maybe I'm not as against genetic research as I thought?

 

This is only my 2nd question and of course my hate for my breasts has not gone away. it isn't going to go away overnight.

 

fine fine...

but in the end, the opinions that really matter are from the guys that get to see your boobs...

...so relax...

even if all people from all forums say theyre unattractive, and you find yourself a real-life guy that likes them, who cares?

 

Keep in mind Hun, you've been to a few nipple-specific boards right? This right there would lead me to think that if the posters are mostly male then its a fetishist board or some sports-bar brained board filled with a bunch of schmucks whos thoughts range from beer to football to barbie doll shaped bodies. Fuck cookie cutter bullshit.

The world is far bigger a place than a board which would have a select focus on nipples or breasts as a rule, meaning to say moreso that the board is likely attracting a specific demographic of people to it,,, these people are part of the problem... But not really,,, they're ok for having a preference,,, the true problem I think is in your need to gain some sort of approval from others based on superficialities,,, maybe your real focus should be on letting the beauty inside you out, that in itself will attract those who's opinions you should worry about.

 

No..the forums are just question asking forums. People ask q's and people answers.
It just bothers me to know that I'll more than likely turn off a guy I do have sex with over something I could easily change. If the guys on the internet feel this way just imagine how many guys in real life do

 

Okay..... This is not a fact.

If any of those guys that told you this on those other forums actually got a chance with you they would be overjoyed that you had boobs at all. Many of them have probably never even touched a boob and only seen photos on pron sites..... Seriously.