Has anyone had these feeling and how translate this? Of the guys that I am checking out…..some I badly want be the leader in making love to him and being on the top fucking him how I please Others, I check out ….I wish they lead everything with me and lead the way in fucking me …getting pounded as a bottom guy…showing ways to fuck and make love why do I get this feeling …with different types of guys ….is this normal
Yeah, pretty much I'd say. There's nothing that says that you can't feel like a top toward some guys and a bottom to others and anyone who tells you that you can't is lying to you and expressing their opinion. You decide and determine who you want to have sex with and how you would like to do it. I'm a top with some guys and a bottom to others and depending on a lot of stuff including how I'm feeling - and I know that I'm not the only guy who is like this.
thanks for sharing your thoughts and guidance …as much as we have craving for different types of men in different ways… do we think we want be top or bottom based on the following - type of guy he is ..ie feminine or built -the sexy look….eye, facial expression, smile, that spark -the personality/character based on first impressions or knowing them -the way they dress….I love men in tight cloths or unique dressing style …
It all depends on what's floating your boat at any given time or moment. I know that with me, my decision one way or the other depends on how I'm feeling more than any superficial stuff; what I care about is does the selected guy want to do this the way I want to. Personality is important but if you can pass my "asshole" test, we can have some very sexy fun with each other.