My wife has graciously allowed me to watch her masturbate on occasion. Slow rubbing of the clit and occasionally rubbing her breasts and light nipple play. I know the big event is about to happen when her legs widen and back arches. All is pretty controlled no extreme motions. Every once in a while she needs a little self pleasure in the middle of the night. She readily tells me and I’m ok with it…I love her getting off and sharing that with me. Sometimes I wake briefly while she’s getting off. What surprises me is how much the bed is shaking when she’s doing herself. It is only recently that she admitted to having inserting a finger “sometimes” while masturbating. I’m guessing she must really get into finger fucking herself to cause the bed shake. Maybe one day she’ll take care of herself with abandon while I watch. She certainly loves to be fucked hard by me, it only makes sense she gets herself off with similar vigor. anyone else have a wife that’s really rocking the bed when they take care of themself?
I can't say any of the women I've been with literally shook the bed but I dated a woman who would basically have one long orgasm the whole time I got her off or when she used the clit sucker I bought her. She was actually having multiple orgasms. But they happened so many times and so rapidly, they effectively overlapped and bled into a single orgasm that would rise and fall in waves of pleasure but never end. I honestly had to choose a point to stop getting her off because otherwise she would never finish. The most extreme physical reaction to an orgasm I've witnessed was a woman I was eating out. I was doing it for a while and she was loving it but didn't have as strong a reaction as other women. She moaned a little and said your usual stuff like "right there" or "don't stop." But not quite as loud as most women are with me. However, once she said she was close it was barely a second before she came, which caused her to dart straight up into a full sitting position -- completely involuntary -- she let out a quick but loud yelp and it was done. She flopped back down onto her back catching her breath. The whole orgasm lasted for a single second but it was really intense. The most accurate way to describe it is that she came like a man. It's funny but I really am serious. On another note (and my apologies for the unsolicited advice) but it sounds to me like your wife doesn't mind letting you watch her masturbate as much as she might think or allow herself to admit? Have you considered telling her how sexy and beautiful she is when she does it and how arousing it is for you to see it in a way that isn't just saying that it's hot but also sends the message it's not a kinky stigmatized thing and she should feel comfortable and free to enjoy herself with her partner? She might be a lot less guarded about it. But, you know her and I don't. Soooo... second option: Maybe don't listen to me? Just a thought, as someone who's always engaged in mutual masturbation as a standalone sexual activity or part of foreplay in all my relationships and never been with anyone who didn't feel the same way.
My wife will sit between my legs and lay back against me and uses her vibrator on herself while I massage her tits and pinch her nipples. I do some some hip thrusts to rub my hardness on her back. We usually both cum at the same time, then she'll roll over and suck me so I don't lose my erection. Then she likes it missionary for as long as I can give it to her. Fun times.
Good thoughts! While I have told and continue to tell her these things, it’s more a matter of her upbringing. She was raised in a very religious and judgmental family. As a result, she is quick to call women tramps if they show too much skin or have premarital sex. Yet if she gets in a horny mood or is in “I’m on vacation” mindset, she can really surprise me. As for masturbating for me, it took more than 3 decades of marriage before I got to watch. I managed to get just one sexual fantasy from her that didn’t involve me and very vanilla sex that she has masturbated to. Of course, when she is in the right mindset (vacay or horny) it makes what happens so erotic given her repressions. Many examples
my ex wife was so horny she'd start fingering herself as we were watching TV. that was usually my signal to get on my knees and start licking
We were in a cabana on the beach in Jamaica a few years ago. I fingered my wife till she came. While she’s getting into it, there’s a weed vendor in his boat a short distance away with a great view of her legs spreading, my hand in her suit working her pussy and her coming. Not someone watching HER masturbate but was pretty hot nonetheless
