im confused about this girl

Girls like her are a dime a dozen. Flirt with her if you like, but don't waste your time developing feelings for her. Even if she led you along, she would still be playing the field as soon as your back was turned.

 

You are better off moving on. When her boyfriend comes back in 6 months, you don't want to be one of several victims from his wrath when he finds out this shit is going on. She's messy, stay away from that.

 

Or in extreme pain or death

 

not rly afraid of her boyfriend hes a whimp and im pretty big but i will back off like the other memebers sayd its not worth it
she will do the same thing to me

 

Good.

 

You are assuming that the boyfriend even exists. It could all be part of the play.

 

You could be right, but, it's really not far off from reality. This thing happens all the time.

 

you should be thankful. you're just confused about this girl. i'm confused about every girl.

 

he exists she even showed me her conversations with him on messenger and she was pictures with him on facebook

 

Why are you torturing yourself over someone who obviously doesn't think that your worthy of being her number one ?
Life is hard enough without putting yourself into the middle of what could be a mental illness.
It's easier to row a boat downstream then it is upstream.
Give yourself a break from people who are bat $hit crazy. You'll have a lot less stress in your life.

 

This sort of thing has been going on for years.
In the 19th and early 20th century it was more male dominated, particularly the sailors who had a girl in every port as they traveled the world. Puccini's opera Madame Butterfly is based on it.
I worked in the theater for most of my life and saw it every day. Girls would range from flirting to sleeping with guys wherever they were performing, but always had a safety net of the boyfriend at home when they needed to call the shots. Most of the boyfriends had some baggage and just treated them as a bit on the side when they were in town.
I am not saying that this has to be the case with your situation, but always remember that even if you took on the role of boyfriend, she would most likely never change her ways and you would end up in a relationship riddled with mistrust.

 

(Sigh)....Amen to that!

 

ey bro, you can do whatever the fork you want, I have not read your whole comment and I dont care what you write... but I have read enough to comment now... as a brother im telling you: you gotta respect the golden rule in this game, which is : dont go for a girl that has a boyfriend already!!!!! !!! one day....you will have a girlfriend, and...another brother will do the same to your girlfriend you heard? thats karma, its inevitable!! !

real talk from don juan de tenerife

 

Dude shes playing you hard, BF is out of town she wants attention so she is leading both of you on just enough to get the attention she needs, she didnt talk to you for a couple days then reeled you back in. Run away shes crazy. Been there done that minus the bf part but was played hard its a shitty feeling, once i realized what was going on and heard through friends she was playing other guys,i turned her games on her a bit then called her on it, she flipped out and we cut ties, turns out the other guys she was playing also caught onto her crap and did the same, she was new in town and using us all to benefit herself in different ways. Get out before she fucks with your head too much.