What's Happening???

We've got one of those situations brewing in my mom's family. It was either her brother or one of her uncles who fathered a son that we didn't know about. We haven't figured it out yet and probably never will because the cousin that I think he is half-siblings with is such a bitch. She will never let it be known. Hopefully, I outlive her and can spread the good news about her dear daddy.

Salty much?

Yeah, that whole branch of the family are/were lying, hypocritical, assholes.

 

Yeah, get there quick and they can give you that anti-viral. I forget the name. My sister-in-law had shingles a few years ago.

Edit: Sorry, I see I was late to the conversation.

 

I WANT MY RECORDS BACK!!!!

 

Lol i could never do this...well, I had to do it once because it was too painful to see him...but we ended up being friends eventually. It felt a bit like he died when I cut contact and I didnt like it. And all my other exes i've been friends with almost right off the bat after a break up

Which has made life full of some fairly weird moments, but it works

 

Yikes. I dont get people like that. Like, thats a person you're trying to hide and keep a secret. Such a strange mentality

 

I've had some good break ups, where it was mutual, but some bad ones, where the guy was just baaad. And no contact was the only way to heal. If a guy treated me badly, I wouldn't want him as a friend.

I'm really happy now, but if my husband ever treats me badly, I wonder how no contact works with ex husbands hmm lol

 

Dammit!

 

They are like Spiff.

They think everybody is about money.

 

Toda'ys Been My Best Day For Months......Don't Have A Garbage Service Out Here So I Let It Build Up On

The Western Veranda.......Then Every So Many Months I Hire A Skip Bin..(dumpster).......Should Have

Been Cleared Months Ago But I Just Couldn't Manage It.......So I Rang The Guy Today And He Bought

Out A 5 Square Meter Bin And I Filled It By Myself......Drenched With Sweat Although It's Only

9c......I'm Very Pleased With Myself.......Haven't Touched Alcohol For Weeks But I May Indulge In

One For Dinner Tonight.......All These Bags Have Really Been Worrying Me Lately.......Things

Tend To Do That When Your'e Sick.....



Cheers Glen.

 

I got rid of my garbage service a couple of years ago and started taking mine to work and throwing it in their dumpster...lot cheaper that way.

 

You're adorable

 

I’ve been at the giving and receiving end of a no-contact break-up. It sucked. Being on the receiving end of it left me with a lot of unanswered questions, and when I saw her again at graduation, I couldn’t even look her in the eye when she approached me. I regretted not speaking with her to find some closure.

The other girl I gave the silent treatment to was psychotic and physically abusive. It was a liberating break-up

 

Glad to hear you're better!

Another tough one to get over is Bell's Palsy.

My hubby had that about 20 years ago; and I have a female friend that had it a couple of years ago. That's rough stuff.

So many weird viruses...

 

No contact isn't the same as silent treatment. Silent treatment is a mean thing that some people do when they're in a relationship, to control someone else. No contact means...'we're done, and I want to heal without you trying to get your way back into my life.' Or something like that. lol

 

Ok well in that case I should’ve said i have gave and received the silent treatment...

 

Oh yeah i did cut contact with a psycho once. Forgot about that one.

 

Interesting. Yea, that does suck, I dated a guy who did this, ugh. I honestly never did that, but I've just always viewed no contact as a good way of moving on, if you dated an asshole. lol

So, like...do you think the silent treatment you gave was warranted? Like why did you do that?

 

Oops, I missed that post. lol

Yes, that's exactly it, then. I don't mean to say that when I was done dating a guy, I just went no contact lol I only did it when after breaking up, a guy wouldn't take no for an answer, or wanted to keep being an asshole to me AFTER we broke up.

Sorry you were in a physically abusive relationship, @6-eyed shaman :/

 

Whats with all the serious relationship talk