I am bisexual. I often find myself attracted to women that I am freinds with, but never men with I am freinds. If I become freinds with a man I was once attracted to, I am not attracted to him anymore. Whats up with that? Does this happen to any of you?
Huh, could it be some sort of committment issue? Have you ever "gone steady" with a male? You don't have to answer here I'm tossing this out for you to think about. Maybe you are OK with having one night stands but for whatever reason you have problems with anything ongoing with one man.
I am the same not interested in guys that I am friends with. Well not usually but like the idea of one night stands.
I've never had sex with any of my male friends. I'm not "out" and have been afraid approaching one would hurt the friendship. I have hopes every one-night stand turns into a regular arrangement. Regulars are comfortable. You know you will have a cock to suck and learn what he likes. Married men develop a routine that gets them out of the house for a couple of hours a week without the family know he's sucking cocks, getting sucked or having his ass fucked. I've had several such arrangements, sometimes more than one man at the same time. Some of them developed into friendships that continued after the sex ended. I never had a romantic attraction to any of my regulars, it was strictly for sex.
I've been this way for the past 25 years. My present wife knows, but my ex-wife never did, nor do any co-workers or social friends. Believe me, I've had several friends and/or co-workers I would have loved to suck off but was fearful of loosing the friendship. I've had 9-10 regular mutual suck buddies that evolved into friendships as we got to know each other during the numerous times we sucked each others cocks. My present shared lover is friends with both me and my wife...longest bud I've ever had too as it's two years now he's been stopping over for MMF threesomes occasionally when my wife is up to it. If she's not we'll spend hours sucking each other off with periodic breaks to socialize with my wife. She likes it when we're just sitting in the living room with her naked, conversing, having a refreshment, then one of us drops to his knees with her present to start another round of sucking.
Low Hangers, you have an ideal situation. I hope for all three of you it continues. Most of my regulars only lasted a few months. Most of them ended a gradually as the excitement of a new affair faded away. My longest suck buddy was almost a year. Like me, he was just out of a divorce so getting together wasn't a problem. Sometimes he would come to my house or I would go to his for a weekend. We spent most of the time naked. If one got the urge to suck, we did it. We would have moved in together except both of our families would have a fit. He moved out of state to be closer to his grandchildren. I had a bi girlfriend for a couple of years. She had been into swinging for awhile and introduced me to the wildest elements of my sexual experiences. She liked watching two men suck each other then DVP her then take turns licking the cum out of her pussy. Damn, I miss that woman! She surprised everyone by marrying a straight man. Wonder how that turned out?
Yeah my ex was bi and before I moved to CA we talked about swinging or having a MMF 3sum. We had a few MFF and it was great. Anything we did she had to be there to partake. No sneaking around. Damn I miss that woman. Hopefully I can find someone like her out here!
