Trying to hold back ejaculation when masturbating

I don't know if there is a term for this or the best way to phrase this because when I google it, I don't get the results that I intend.

This isn't about edging or prolonging ejaculation and orgasm. In these cases, I am definitely trying to do both.

Sometimes, usually during masturbation, but occasionally with sex, when I am about to cum, I try to hold it in/back as long as I possibly can. Typically when I cum, my pelvis thrusts forward to aid in release, but in these instances, I hold it back as long as I possibly can, probably for no more than just 4 or 5 seconds. Everything squeezes tight as I try to hold back...and then eventually I reach a point where I can no longer hold back and my body jolts forward and end up ejaculating. Most of the time, the result is an orgasm that is much more intense to the point I have to the point I am almost breathless from trying to tighten everything up. It also typically results in a lot more force behind my ejaculation.

I always try to see if I can just hold it back forever to see what the outcome would be, but no success.

The best analogy I could think of was just stretching a rubber band backward before firing. Most of the time, you take it back to a certain distance, but in these cases, it's like pulling the rubber band back as far as you possibly can before the force is so strong that you can no longer hold it and it shoots.

Anyone else?

 

I use to do it when I was in college with my then girlfriend and it did work. I would pull back and it allowed me to hold the orgasm, and when I did release it was much stronger. I also use to practice it when masturbating, and it did help me when actually having sex. I find that I'm less successful when masturbating. I attribute that to the fact that I know specifically what causes me to blow.

 

edging, sure. but just holding back for a few seconds before i blow actually seems to lessen the whole thing.

 

After masturbating for a prolonged time when I am about to reach climax I just let go off my penis and relax. This helps me to hold back my climax for a while. I repeat this several times before reaching a stage when I cannot hold it any longer. But by holding the climax gives lots of pleasure more than ejaculation.

 

TripleT:

I know exactly and precisely what you're doing -- I've done it many, many times, and it ALWAYS intensifies the force & heat & volume & intoxicating joy of my orgasm/ejaculation:

Many times, especially when I've been edging for a while, just having myself real good, or even if it's a much shorter session, when I decide to go on and cum, I'll slow it down & let it build slowly, preparing myself (and gloriously anticipating and celebrating the earth-shattering eruption!) to 'cum'. I feel myself approaching the point-of-no-return, only this time I keep stroking, very deliberately, purposefully ...
Joy fills my heart & soul -- here it cums (I can hear myself whimpering softly for what's about to happen to me!) ... but when I finally do slip past that point, and I KNOW that nothing in heaven or on earth can stop it now, I clench my teeth and BEAR DOWN WITH ALL MY MANLY STRENGTH on all the muscles in my loins & belly & dick & testicles & buttocks & thighs in a vain attempt to stop it. But by now, just as you say, Triple, it CANNOT be stopped; 2-3 heartbeats, 4-5 seconds go by like an eternity; the tension and cramping and accompanying pleasure/pain of all those muscles tightening to overcome my intentional resistance WITHIN THEMSELVES is the most exquisite, excruciating, electrifying sexual sensation that can be pursued and endured by an able-bodied man; I've tried it while fucking, but the distraction there, while enjoyable, is prohibitive. It's only during a very private session of full-body, heart, mind, soul MASTURBATION that its full potential can be realized. Do not be surprised if you come very near to passing out when that first hard, shattering contraction slams into your full, heavy testicles like a sledge hammer, if your cum is clear & thin & watery and is so very much hotter than it's ever been before, and leaps up & out with a force & pressure that takes your breath completely away, if it seems the spasming & quaking of your entire lower body will never end,if it takes you much longer to recover from this than from the best it's ever been before. If you are one sore son-of-a-bitch next day, but everybody keeps asking what the hell you're smiling about. Happy stroking.

Triple, why don't we name it "hard-balling"?

Stand back, baby --I'm about to get one now ...!

 

I can usually last around 20 minutes of building and stopping before I have to have release. Makes for an exploding and powerful ejaculation.

 

Love to edge for hours and my cock gets very sensitive

 

This is an older thread, but I would love to hear more similar experiences from some of you most avid, active pursuers of the indescribable, euphoric (oh, at times almost spiritual!) joys and 'highs' of unrestrained MASTURBATION. As I mentioned above, I've done this many, many times ... but, oh, how it feels to do it with a full-size realistic dildo buried balls-deep in your hot, clinging, shivering, sucking asshole !

More please ...!!!

 

Ive been edging all afternoon. See if I can make it until tonight

 

You can do it buddy. Ride that edge cliff for as long as you can.

 

Thank you! Brief, but it let's me know you're out there...! Let me and Bigred know how it turned out for you (I'm starting one right now ...!)

 

Some very explicit details, if you please, sir, including a detailed description of your dick at its hardest, and how it felt when that first spurt came leaping up & out?!

 

I just love stroking with you guys, knowing hiw much you love doing it, too!

 

Yeah it is awesome and feels so good. Great male bonding experience.

 

It felt like my balls turned inside out and came out through the head of my dick. My wife enjoyed seeing it but didn't help. She did bring me a paper towel though. Lol

 

I love to edge I have intense orgasm’s I shake and almost pass out! I love to cum!

 

I use this technique of trying to hold off the cum. It's impossible of course - once you hit the point of inevitability, your body is going to do what it's going to do. It might just be my imagination, but I do feel like if I try to hold the ejaculation in, I can prolong the interval between when it's inevitable and the first spurt. Of course the pleasure at that moment is so indescribably intense I want it to last as long as possible. The difference is only a split second, but at least as I experience that moment just before ejaculation, it makes it a little longer and a little more intense, and that makes me a very happy guy!

 

I put on cock rings and lube my cock and balls with "Wet" lube. I`ll do a slow stroke from the base of my cock up and over the head. All the while I`m stroking my balls. The sensation drives me fuckin crazy and I have to resist the urge to stroke faster. I feel my cock start to spasm and let it go. A little bit of cum dribbles out but I just lay there and let my hard package sit on my abs,my cockhead in a little puddle of jizz. It just throbs and watching it is a turn on. Eventually I`ll rub off to orgasm and it is extremely intense.

 

I mostly put my cock and balls through a large stainless steel ring. And like you said, it really makes my cock hard and sort of pushes my manhood forward. Sometimes I wear it while out doing things because I love the sensation it gives. Sort of keeps a semi in my shorts with a nice bulge. At times while jackin off I’ll put a second ring at the base of my cock and a third just over the crown of my cockhead. This feels fucking awesome when I stroke.

 

Any chance of jacking off in a group chatroom?