Vaginismus help

ok so my gf may have vaginismus
im not sure she is making an appointment but the reason i think she may have it is because i can't insert a finger into her vagina its like i hit a brick wall i tried lube and still nothing.
she isnt turned on either but i dont think that would actually matter a whole lot i should still be able to get a finger in her.
do u all have any experience with vaginismus?

 

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she isnt a big fan of kissing or me even playing with the breasts

 

Well there's your problem.

 

Is there something else I could try to get her started?

 

try dating someone who's attracted to you.

 

She is very attracted to me
She just doesn’t like kissing anywhere other then lips

 

and she's not turned on when you try to finger her.

 

Not so much I may be doing too rough

 

But I’ve only tried to finger her while she’s asleep I was thinking that maybe that would work since she was relaxed

 

A way hotter boyfriend by the sounds of it

 

Vaginismus, its like Festivus, but for vaginas

 

She’s what we used to refer to as frigid.

Was she sexually molested as a child?

 

If she wasnt, she is now:

 

Now that’s not fair, but she is as tight as a 75 year old virgin ..lol..

 

Try the other hole

 

But not when she is sleeping

 

If you go to WebMD you'll see that there are exercises that could help. But she needs to want a solution and try the exercises. She really needs to talk to her doctor about this and maybe even see a therapist.

 

You don't have to be sexually molested to be frigid. Sometimes its just low self-esteem. Sometimes a person genuinely isn't interested in sex.

It's all a matter of it you can handle it. I couldn't, and left my frigid girlfriend.

Ignore Vanilla Gorilla. He just likes to make people feel bad about themselves.

 

I think she’s gonna do exercises to see if that will help
She’s not really into sex she could care less she says