I enjoy being bi

A FFM threesome is all about the women. The man is there to do what they say to make the experience pleasurable for them. They obviously want a cock or you would not have been invited. They will see to it that your needs are met, too.

 

Two women wow I might have a heart attact!

 

Your welcome, I think..

 

What makes you think I'm going to have more relationships than the one I'm already in?

 

What bs..

 

My reply: Alrighty then, ncbumpkin! I'm listening....

 

But first, while I'm waiting for you to expound, I thought I'd share with you a true story about me:

The first girl to get me in the sack tried three times, and I just couldn't get there, as I was terrified and didn't know why. We succeeded on the third try, and afterwards she asked me what I thought. Being exceedingly naive and honest, I told her that "Well, after all that hype and blow I've been hearing, it really isn't all it's cracked up to be, is it?"

She cracked up. A lot. I learned much later that she had an enviable wit, as well as patience. Good thing, too, 'cuz I also found out later that such an answer, regardless of how honest, is a good way to get yer face tapped with a skillet. Sometimes I feel like an alien who doesn't get the local vibe or something.

 

My reply: I think you may have answered that yourself already:

"I trust my gut, my instincts.. and I'll know when it happens.."

The above statement implies that it hasn't happened yet. Perhaps you mis-spoke?

 

No, you're right. There are times I wonder if I would be happier in a relationship with a man instead of a woman. I've only had three boyfriends since I was eighteen. This is the second time that I've been in a relationship with another woman.
For me, I think I have a long list of qualities I would love to see in another person. Marriage is a commitment I'm going to take very seriously. It's not just about the physical attraction either. Honestly, I've enjoyed sex with the men and women I've been with.
I want more than that... I want qualities like self confidence, empathy, sense of humor. compassion for others, a good work ethic and much more in another person.
My expectations might be a problem but I'm not going to just settle for anyone.

 

The comments just sounded so sexist to me, about these women wanting cock so much. I guess it's because I've never had nor will I ever have any interest in being part of threesomes or any of these other sex fantasies .
I like being in a relationship with just one person, whether it is a boyfriend or a girlfriend at the time. I've always been faithful to that person...cheating or threesomes or whatever just isn't who I am. .
I mean, I love that part of a man's body, too but great sex isn't enough for me, you have to have more things you love about the other person or in common than just how good they are in bed.

 

You got so excited you spelled heart attack wrong

 

BS? That hurt. Sometimes sex is just for sex and women have desires and fantasies, too. My comment was a warning to men who might be invited to participate in a FFM. BTW, I have had more FFM relationships than you have had boyfriends.

 

OK I can't spell...."So"

 

It sounded the same to me, but I also have no experience with multiple partners. I am anatomically limited to one at a time, and I love concentrating on that one alone. I listen, trying to pick up her pulse, respiration, vocals, touch, etc.. As you pointed out, sex isn't all there is to a relationship. There are many intangibles that go into one, and hard to describe entirely. Having and sharing interests is one, but so also is the ability to share that which neither have in common, such as new interests and discoveries. Like I said previously, I personally want someone who causes me to want self-improvement and growth. I can think of nothing more worthless than someone who makes me feel like there's nothing more to be had or discover.

All that said, I'm in no hurry. I've been divorced for over 12 years, and felt single for years before that. The last wife taught me that I can live without sex (dick move), and at my age, I don't even know if anything works anymore. It would be nice to find out, but I'm not concerned enough to waste any time looking, as I have other things I want to pursue that make spending my cash on relationships not worthwhile at this time. Things could change rapidly, though. You, on the other hand, are young enough to be concerned, and attractive enough to pursue your quest. I suggest you not "price yourself out of the market, so to speak, by making your requirement list to long or high. Hindsight usually makes clear that we shouldn't have been so picky when we were younger. It's really not about finding the right one to live so much as learning how to rightly love the one you found that makes life worthwhile.

 

Gotcha. .I've never been in these kind of relationships. As I posted on here somewhere, I prefer one on one relationships with either a man or a woman. .
I can understand how it would be exciting for a guy to be with two women or even a woman to be with two other women.
Honestly, I've always been able to have all my sexual desires met with the person I'm with, be it a man or a woman. .

 

Relax.. Just giving you a hard time..

 

I might have a heart attack, too, if I was with two other women at the same time.

 

Try it you might like it! I did!

 

No, honestly, I'm not into multi partner relationships..

 

To tell you the truth I don't either! I like what's between the guys legs, hugging and kissing is not for me! I tired it once no more!