Bisexuals: are you attracted to both sexes equally or one more than the other?

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  1. Poplo.

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    You just gave me one and it's 7 in the morning and the wife is sound asleep! I guess I'll go in the bathroom and get some relief!
     
  2. Poplo.

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    Enjoy both I do!
     
  3. Poplo.

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    Watch it that woody might brake off!...........................:)
     
  4. CandyCane1990

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    really depends on my mood but i'd say usually equal
     
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  5. Poplo.

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    I bet!
     
  6. slayer3737

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    You're not alone. There seems to be quite a number of guys that just like another man's cock and nothing else about his body or him. I don't quite get that, but it's definitely a thing, and I was the same for 20+ years, until I added his ass into the equation. Maybe were in love with our own cock and that's why we have such uncontrolled desire for other guys' cocks?
     
  7. Poplo.

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    I met a guy who really turned me on once after several weeks I met him at his apartment after a few drinks he had me in his arms kissing me and feeling me off the kissing did nothing for me in fax it turned me off but I let it go on for his sake! When I went to his apartment I figured on sucking him but that never happened! All he wanted to do is kiss and feel me off! I've never have kissed another man since!
     
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    I don't blame you! When I put my face on her pussy it's nice and wet and the smell of his cum and her's is awesome!
    I never thought I would be doing this with my wife and her lover but it has!
     
  9. Just for fun

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    In my first homosexual experience the man whose dick I sucked attempted to embrace and kiss me on the lips. It infuriated me to the point that I wanted to punch him. I told him never try that again as I put his dick back in my mouth. You know, thinking back I never really liked kissing women either. I have had many many sex partners and it seems that in most cases my mouth went straight for their crotches and vice versa.
     
  10. Poplo.

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    Oh I love kissing women especially my wife Sarah ha! I had what you call a lover for about a year and a half and when we would meet we always gave
    each a hug but never a kiss except on New years night we did kiss but it was just like a peck after that we gave each other what we both really wanted a good sucking and a whole lot of cum and boy could he ever cum a lot! To this day I've never met a guy who could cum so much as he could at one time and it didn't take long before he could cum again! He use to get upset when he wanted me to cum again but it always took some time before I could cum again that's why some times we would invite another guy to join us and boy the sucking seem to go on for ever then!
     
  11. Just for fun

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    I've been dildoed in the butt by several women but never a guy. My fantasy is to be completely ravaged by about 3 or 4 shemales. I mean in my butt, mouth and my dick being sucked etc. and maybe several standing in line to continue after they cum. When my wife says it's time to get my dick sucked these are the things I think about to get a good woody. She usually asks me if I am thinking about a girl or a dick. I am always honest with her. I tell her about that fantasy and she says isn't it cool that we have the same fantasy.
     
  12. Poplo.

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    What's keeping you and your wife from making it come true!
     
  13. Just for fun

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    We discussed both of our fantasies and how they would be played out over and over again. When we have any kind of sex these stories always come up and enhance the situation. But we both come so good that when it's over we both feel, naaaaaa we like just the two of us and our discussions are better than having some other greasy human being in our bed. But thats just us. I am happy for anyone who takes the plunge with another person or more.
     
  14. Poplo.

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    We felt the same way you do at first but after a few years of talking about we took the plunge and now the only regret is that we didn't start sooner!
    The first time was some what scary at first but once it all begins that goes away and the pleasure begins believe me but if your happy the way it is then
    stay the way you are! Good luck!
     
  15. Just for fun

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    Life is like a box of chocolates, it's all about choice my friend. I like this free thinking group. Some day I think I will go on a clothing optional cruise just to rub elbows with free thinking people who like to live the life.
     
  16. Just for fun

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    I agree the shemale I would hand with would need B or C tits and a rounded butt and be feminine but not overly so.
     
  17. DaveTheBiGuy

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    I'm a bisexual married guy. I love my wife more than anything in the world, and we're truly soul mates. We share a unique and special bond that neither of us had ever experienced in previous relationships.

    That being said... I actually knew at a fairly young age that I was sexually attracted to guys before I realized I was interested in women too, but I grew up in a homophobic family and didn't think my friends would understand either, so in my teens I suppressed my desires to be with men, and dated a few different females. While I definitely had fun with females, it always kinda felt like "something was missing".

    It wasn't till I was 21 and moved away from home that I experienced my first guy. It wasn't planned, but when it happened, it felt so right and totally natural. My first time kissing, making out and seeing him naked gave me that "butterflies" in the stomach feeling, which I hadn't experienced with females to that point (and wouldn't until I met my wife). He became the first and only boyfriend I've ever had, and the relationship lasted a little over 2 years, and it was wonderful. The only reason the relationship ended was because he moved away for a job. That very first gay relationship made me realize I can be just as (if not more) happy, satisfied and content in a relationship with another man as I am with a woman. After that relationship ended, I had a short relationship with another guy (FWBs). He was a dominant top, and I'm a submissive bottom with guys, so it was really nice for a while... But as time went on, he became a greedy lover, only caring that he got off, wether I did or not. After about a year I decided to end things with him.

    When I was 25, I moved back home, and met my wife shortly thereafter. We dated for a little over 2 years before I proposed to her. We've now been married for 12 years. That doesn't mean my need/desire to be with men has gone away... Quite the opposite actually. As a matter of fact, as I get older, my need/desire for a long-term gay relationship (I'm NOT interested in just sex) gets stronger and stronger. I've had a few short term relationships with guys since I've been married.

    I can honestly say that whenever I've been in a relationship with a woman, my need/desire to be with a man has never diminished... Yet when I've been in "gay relationships", I've had very little to no sexual desire for women. I can say I'm truly bisexual, and unlike most bisexual guys, I actually crave the romance/intimacy (kissing, making out, cuddling, holding hands and showering) of being with a man and not just the sex (great sex is just the icing on the cake for me).

    Overall, If I had to put a percentage on my attraction to men and women, I'd say I'm about 65% attracted to MEN and 35% attracted to women. I just happened to fall in love with and marry a woman (it very well could have been a man if the timing were different)

    In an ideal world, I'd actually like to persue a long-term gay relationship while still remaining married to my wife, and keeping vthe 2 relationships separate from one another. My wife is also bisexual, and I've supported and encouraged her to act on her needs/desires to be with a woman and persue a lesbian relationship if she chose to do so (and she has), so her allowing me to persue a gay relationship probably isn't out of the question, as long as she feels her needs aren't neglected.
     
  18. Mistina

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    Depends on my mood. Sometimes I want men more, sometimes I want women more, sometimes it’s equal :)
     
  19. Josh987654321

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    Relationships with women. Sex 1/3 women 2/3 men
     
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    Does she know your history?
     

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