The root of this topic is our attitude to masturbation and the differences between men and women. It was always assumed men wanked and women didn't. We now know that's not true. Women can be very open about masturbating but its still seen as something perverse or immoral in men. I think that men masturbating is rather unattractive whilst when women finger themselves its rather pleasant to look at. But then, i'm a straight male!
To me it’s a double standard — the rare double standard that goes against males. Women do the big M and they are fulfilling their sexuality. We men (and boys) know that we all do it, yet admit to it and you’re a wanker, which is a decidedly pejorative label. The only environments where we can even discuss it without fear of ostracism are online forums like this, and with a psychotherapist. Society’s attitude toward male masturbation is completely f’d up. Why can’t the image of a hand-held ejaculating penis be an icon that we celebrate?
No I don't think masturbating is weird, a perfectly natural thing to do, and the pleasure is imence, weird thing is you can't talk about to anyone except online and to people who are thousands of miles away, I love it and have masturbating since 11_years old
Weird is as weird does? I've done some really weird things, masturbating is very tame I masturbated for a small group of women, they had a good time, so did I Fulfilling their request got me laid that night.
I like the feeling of my hard cock in my hand as I stroke it. I feel that in no way makes me gay or bisexual. It's my cock and I can play with it whenever I want and for however long that I want. I'd even suck my own cock if I could and I still don't think that would make me gay or bisexual. I just think that would be another way for me to reach orgasm. It's not so much that I'm enjoying "the cock" or that I would be enjoying the fact that I had my cock in my mouth, but it's the fact that I enjoy the feeling that I get when I stroke my cock or if I was sucking my cock. To me it's about the feeling and the end result, not about the fact that it's a male sexual organ.
Nope! It's natural and awesome! And when I'm in the mood I NEVER have a headache! Unlike some female partners!
I thought jacking off was weird ever since I first heard of it when I was about 9 or 10 years old--but some might think what I soon started doing was even weirder: squeezing my wiener between my thighs, pretending I was a girl, and ejaculating all over the backs of my thighs! But it felt so good, I couldn't keep from doing it every night!
I don't find it to be weird at all. I discovered it by accident and have enjoyed it for many years. Sure, I prefer having a woman's hand doing the work, but doing it myself allows me to enjoy a physical experience and a mental image of one of my fantasies.
People have been doing it since the beginning of time. Animals do it. I think NOT doing it is a sign of being messed up.
Funniest thread so far. The poor little troll that started this thread lasted 9 days before giving it up. Oh well, that's what happens to most trolls. Now, on to the question. When I was growing up we made fun of people who jacked off. Called them weird perverts. That's probably the reason I waited so late in life (age 20ish) before I began to masturbate. Then, even though I was ejaculating I wasn't really doing it right. It took a woman to show me how to pleasure myself. From there I have been enjoying giving myself pleasure as often as I could. It's a great way to relieve sexual tension when there is no other way available. Am I gay? I think not. I hold my cock when: I piss, wash, check for injury, shave it, itch it, ready it for insertion into a pussy, and masturbate. By just rubbing over my cock with my hand in order to stimulate pleasurable sensations does not make me identify with any sexual orientation other than enjoying self pleasure. Not gay, not bi, not straight, not trans, not anything other than enjoying myself sexually.