Opinion On Dating Chubby Or Fat Girls?

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  1. Barry Thrift

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    Big girls have more to handle, and I have found there more friendly and happy.
     
  2. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    You seriously need to work on your self esteem. You don't have to work harder than any other girl just because you're not a size 2. I used to think that way too, but I don't anymore. Don't apologize for your size. The right person will love you and your looks. I used to date someone who tolerated my looks but now I'm dating someone who genuinely thinks I'm the sexiest thing in the world, and it's so much more fulfilling.

    There are no extra requirements to dating if you're a big girl. This whole concept is degrading.
     
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  3. Lego Batman

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    Let me volunteer to get you minds right
    fat ass booty chasin after limelight
    And it's fallin off the side like back flap
    givin girls rides to the crib its a bat trap
    peanut butter cheese cracker freeze raps
    push is up and it snaps back
     
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    Hey new one. ;)
    Larger girls often train their bodies and become everything that they were waiting to become instead of dating before it because they know that they are worth it and they deserve it too.
    Some larger girls such as you are waiting for the kind of visions that the others had before they started training. The answer is magic. :)
     
  5. 6-eyed shaman

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    I'd have a difficult time staying hard for a fat chick. Sorry; not sorry.
     
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    There are men out there that return on their hands and knees to such chicks once they have been transformed in to models.
     
  7. Dax

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    I think it depends on each individual. I've see many ladies whom I believe are like chubby/tubby walking around holding hands with an average size guys. Guesss there's a partner for skinny, average, chubby, tubby guys and girls.
    Personally I prefer, slim, blonde ladies ... especially when they wear their long hair in a pony tail.
     
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    I prefer naked women.
     
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  9. Pete's Draggin'

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    I'm an athletic body type myself, so I'm more attracted to slim and athletic women.
    But....
    I found myself attracted to 2 beautiful redheads that were curvy/chubby not fat.

    Both of their body styles were proportioned just perfectly. One of them is now taking a spin class and loves it. She's taking the class because she wants to get her pre baby bod back.... good for her 1st.....and good for me 2nd.
     
  10. Lego Batman

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    my shawty is thick and curvy
     
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  11. everything bagel

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    Mine too

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    I have a Kardashian ass girlfriend..
    woman come in round and not.. I have to go round..
     
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  13. wilt88ta

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    I believe that, beyond stereotypes, it is a matter of personal taste.
    An ex-colleague of mine said he liked thin and tall women for when he was out of bed and curvy ones for when he was in bed. For sure he was joking, but I think I understand what he meant, though the expression he used may sound rude.

    I also find it very pleasant to feel the shapes of a woman when I hug her, even though I cannot say that I have always been attracted to women of a certain type.
    Mine is more a consideration in retrospect.
    When I had this kind of experience, I appreciated the shapes of a curvy or a little chubby woman.
    I don't want to generalize because there are so many exceptions, but I have often seen chubby women with very beautiful faces.
    As for me, from a physical attraction point of view, I don't feel attracted to excess in one sense or the other.

    However, there is something that I can't explain but that intrigues me a lot and makes me very excited.
    It inspires me a lot of sex, in an irrepressible way and without restraint, a woman very small in stature and a little chubby.
    I find irresistible shapes, even a little pronounced, in a woman who is very short in stature.
    This may seem absurd, because I am quite tall, but from a purely sexual and libido point of view, this type of woman makes me horny a lot.
    For a long time it was just a fantasy because I had not happened in the past of having an affair with a woman of this type.
    Since I have been with my current partner, which corresponds to this description, I have found that I really like her in bed, and one of the reasons is definitely because of how she is physically.
    Sexually, I am much more active than my previous relationships.
    Of course it depends on many other factors, such as the affinity of our characters, compatibility, complicity, mutual understanding, as we feel comfortable with each other, but in these things, I know, physical appearance also plays a major role independently of the rest.

    Among other things, I prefer a slightly round tummy rather than extremely flat and muscular.
    I dedicate a lot of attention to it during the foreplay and, even when my partner is in my arms sitting on my knees, I like to caress it with my hand thinking about when I will be in there if the evening will have a happy outcome.
     
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    You must meet our Lottie at my place.
     
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  17. soulcompromise

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    Lottie is a big girl.

    I don't have any problem with the sex part. It's the relationship part that gets me. But why should that be any different. I feel like I should overhaul my standards now... sorry ladies!!! :)

    I don't mind it, but I think that health-wise one should keep the weight to a "normal" body mass index.
     
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    Nice to date.
    oh my no.
     
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    My theory is that if the media was pushing a beauty standard that said fat was hot most of the men saying "eeew fat chicks" would be saying "eeew skinny chicks"

    At different points in history different body types were desired. Beauty standards are trends and they're not even universal. Most of us are reacting to marketing while thinking we're making a choice based on our own personal standards
     
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