Can the women educate me please.. Do all women have the ability to "squirt" during orgasm or is it a skill that must be practiced? My lady really loves for me to go down on her and I have her push during orgasm with hopes of her squirting, but nothing happens even though she is having a great orgasm. What are we doing wrong?
I believe every woman has the ability to squirt. They must be willing to try or you’ll never have luck. It requires some g-spot stimulation from what I’ve read. I think once a woman has experienced a dozen or so they will now more about what gets them there.
I’ve never been with a woman that squirt and I’ve never heard of anyone that has experienced such a thing. I have read about it and appears to be popular now in the videos we all can find online.
I’ve got to agree with Toecutter and Bicaptain My Captain. Granted, I can count the number of women I’ve screwed on one hand, but even the most orgasmic and sexually liberated woman I’ve been with got “extra wet” at most. Never flooding anything or squirting. The crap on videos is beyond fake. Not saying it can’t happen, but NO WAY is it as common as folks make it out to be. NO WAY.
Sorry Anything - WAY! My spouse would occasionally squirt, not spray but gush or flow, every so often depending on how her body was reacting at the time. After an orgasm or two if I did the right thing she would let loose fluid from her vagina and soak the bed or whatever we were having sex on. My face definitely got soaked. She would also ejaculate during oral sex. I would be lapping her to orgasm and suddenly her vulva and clitoris became very slippery and sweet tasting. That was her ejaculate or as they say in India, "The Nectar of the Gods." But of the over 30 different women I have had sex with she and one other woman are the only ones that did. So some women actually do squirt. If you want to see a very real looking squirter in porn look up old videos by a star named Cythera. Her squirting orgasms seem very real as she loses total control of her body as she orgasms and squirts. If it isn't real she should get some kind of Oscar for her performance. To answer the OP's question you are not doing anything wrong. Your partner may not be able to squirt or ejaculate - yet. She may someday but it isn't that common for woman to do. It seems the consensus derived from numerous studies is that finding the G Spot and stimulating there will improve the likelihood of her squirting and or ejaculating. BTW ejaculating and squirting are two different outputs a woman can have during sex. By you having her push may be inhibiting her ability to produce. It may be best to just let it come naturally and experiment with different stimulation techniques. If she never comes to squirting at least it will be fun to try. And then try and try again. But most importantly don't pressure her to do so.
After mine cums, she shuts her legs because she gets a sensation to pee and makes me stop. I think if she’d let me continue on it’d happen for her.
I think you’re right! I’ve read it feels like you have to pee, I think that’s why most woman don’t try. They think they’ll pee themself.
My gf squirts nearly every time she has an orgasm. She doesn't seem to be trying anything different she just squirts! We use towels under her to save the sheets.
A woman will generally not squirt by regular sex or clitoris orgasms. She must be physically g-spot stimulated by fingers/hand , which is what I have mastered on my wife. Now there are women out there than can squirt on demand with orgasms, which is rare but real. Also squirt while being anally penetrated which I wished it happened with us but never has.
Take it slow, she needs to be really turned on. Clit stimulation slow and wet. Put 1-2 fingers inside to get the juices flowing. U will feel the G spot. Don’t let her come yet. Then penetrate trust me she will squirt.
