It may start out that way, but if you connect with a man sexually enough times, it's hard not to develop feelings. Kissing started that for me. I realized after I was regularly kissing this one guy in particular, I got more and more excited about getting together and even got aroused just texting back and forth. He wasn't just another friend or another guy to suck. When we finally ended up in bed together, it was wonderful for so many reasons
I have only dated women & had sex with a couple of guys before. Is that weird or is it just us all exploring ourselves sexually with others?
I think I’ve always been bi. Back in my High school days I enjoyed the locker room showers so that I could check out my classmates cocks but the first sex I had was with a girl. I didn’t have anything physical with males until I dabbled in the swinger scene and had a threesome with a couple where the guy took my cock into his mouth. I was encouraged to respond in kind and sucked my first cock that night. After that I became pretty open about being bi but only in swinging type situations. I had my first solely bi experience after meeting a guy in the YMCA sauna, after that all bets were off and I for the first time actively sought experiences with other bi makes. But throughout this I was (and are) in the closet and maintained sexual relationships with women. My wife has no idea of my bisexual adventures
I am Bi & it's not like I am plagued. I said I was to a family member 1 time a few years ago, he laughed & thought I was playing a joke and him. Comes to find out he came to me a couple of months ago recently, he said he's Bi as well. I didn't laugh or made him uncomfortable, I help him welcome to his calling.
Wouldn't really say you are bi but your not totally straight... I am bi and to me part of that entails enjoying intimacy with a same sex partner.. can't see enjoying wild times without kissing and making out with my partner.. that said I don't find men exceptionally attractive.. there is something about the curves of a woman that makes them not only beautiful but works of art made by God himself... What makes a man attractive is his sense of humor and his confidence.
Straight, sucking cock doesnt make you bi, but even if it would, your the same person doing what turns you on, all Good
From what you describe, I'd say BI, because you have engaged in same sex and opposite sex sexual activity.
In my opinion, because it's just a physical thing, playing with both genders doesn't make anyone Bi. If, otoh, in cerebral terms, you desire both men and women to some extent, then I would say you are bi. Explained in another way; if your desire for a bloke is only about his cock/orgasms, that is very different from wanting his mind and body.
I would have said straight but have always found the idea of sex with a girl after another man has had her exciting, including licking her and now I have had the opportunity to share a girl with a guy I find his cock very exciting and have stroked him, guided him into her and on one occasion sucked him to orgasm.
I'm straight although I have fucked a guy on two occasions once when his wife watched and I wanked him off while I was fucking him on the couch. I then went over to their bed and gave her a good fucking, I also slept with her in their bed while he was away on business.