Dating a 19 year old when 44

Im so sorry buddy... Im glad ya tried though!!

God bless...

 

@Kev627

I'm also sorry it didnt work out . Pecker up and move on . Put it down to valuable experience and find another fish from the vast sea

 

@Captain Scarlet

I saw K this afternoon leaving work with a different man following her, hanging on her every word. Very clearly the next one on her list to catfish.

So sad when you see people behaving in such a way.

 

I would say she likes the attention seeking and when she has had enough with one person the boyfriend picture gets sent to put that person off clearing the decks for her next victim .

Best avoided in my view

 

I haven't read the whole thread but would advise against this, not because of the age difference (you are both adults) but because you work together. Don't sh*t where you eat. Even if you're in different departments.

As for the age difference, if you encounter a much younger woman who doesn't work with you and seems interested, go for it, but just take it as it comes. It's not likely to be a long term thing but you can enjoy each other for as long as it works. Again, I don't judge two adults whether they be different ethnicities, same sex, different generations, etc. As for "how," same as with any female, take your time but strike while the iron is hot.

 

AS a former bank employee working alongside many ladies I agree with that sentiment . It can be very awkward if you have to work with someone after your relationship with that person has ended . Thats why I never did it and I have been approached .

 

I think the problem that would have arisen should I have had a relationship with K would have been the childish lies she would have circulated amongst my colleagues in the warehouse. The immaturity she showed the afternoon/evening we had arranged to meet leads me to believe she would have made childish comments to other members of staff and as I no longer work with them they would have hung in the air unchallenged.

 

So many times =
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It is nice for an older gent to feel they are in some way attractive to a younger girl.
For them to feel the pangs of what was them in their youth, their ego swollen with pride ("Look what I've pulled" - to be politically incorrect, though perhaps factually accurate).a boost to what they may receive has been missing
IMO
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But too often it is the case when it's not the attaction of physicality or life experience that the guy thinks it is, but moreover the size of their wallet, prestige or influence that can be used for personal advancement and gain
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It is not to say that dating a daughter's aged girl with a dad's aged guy wouldn't/couldn't work - but I think needs be very much considered when moving a relationship of friendship onto one of romantic consequence